Hey guys! I really need some help right now. I actually don’t even want to go in on Monday because of this. It’s so childish but it’s making me stressed.
So I’ve just started college, and I’ve sort of ended up in a big friend group. Me and this girl Allison were the first to meet each other, but we soon made friends with four other people, which gradually increased to ten. Five of us regularly do lunch together, including me and Allison. Me and her have always gotten along, even though sometimes I dislike her, since she regularly talks nastily about people behind their back, but is amiable to their face. She also harasses boys, calling out at them and embarrassing our whole friend group, and then wondering why men don’t want a serious relationship. I mostly stayed friends with her because most other people like her, and I felt sorry for her. (She’s also had a history of fabricating stories and lying compulsively). She used to call me a show-off and a know-it-all, just because I got good grades and tried to participate in group work. I’ve tried to be quieter since.
But the other day, she switched up on me. She randomly approached some guy and started screaming at him. I asked her why she was shouting, because earlier that day, she’d called somebody a **** in town for no reason. She flipped out at me, thinking I was being nasty when I was just like wtf?! Because in the real world, you don’t scream at people randomly.
Anyway, I apologised even tho I wasn’t sure what I did wrong. She refused to talk properly, and then started spreading lies saying I was rude and I had been mean (it was playful banter on our first week of college, and I didn’t realise she was so sensitive. I’ve apologised & never did it again; she assured me she’d forgiven me), even tho every time I do something nice with myself, other people
compliment me, and she tries to insult me. She then told me I had “to face the consequences of my actions” because I’d down “this (whatever this meant) one too many times.” She told me we were no longer friends, and to walk away. She was talking down to me, so in a moment of frustration I told her that if this is a big deal to her, in the real world she’ll have no hope. I said I thought it was childish.
She’s now spreading lies about me, and chatting **** with some of our friends. It’s nasty because she’s too coward to even talk to me. She’s ignoring me, and it’s awkward. It makes me feel like everyone hates me, and it makes me not want to go into college. A lot of my friends are still talking to me, but it’s awkward cuz they’ll go to talk to her too.
Tldr; girl switched up on me randomly, is now talking **** to all of our friends and is too coward to talk to me. I don’t want to go into college because of it.