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i dont know how to cope anymore

im 17 and have very few friends, the ones i have i only talk to briefly.
i wish i could have a proper friend group, especially with girls, who i hung out with regularly. ive wanted one for years but i dont know where to start, it just seems people are not interested in me. everyone else i know fits in fine except me.

what can i do? i only have under 4 months of college before i will leave and never see any of them again. i also still havent asked out my crush which ive had since the start of y12, which just shows how much of a loser i am...
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Original post by khv42
im 17 and have very few friends, the ones i have i only talk to briefly.
i wish i could have a proper friend group, especially with girls, who i hung out with regularly. ive wanted one for years but i dont know where to start, it just seems people are not interested in me. everyone else i know fits in fine except me.

what can i do? i only have under 4 months of college before i will leave and never see any of them again. i also still havent asked out my crush which ive had since the start of y12, which just shows how much of a loser i am...

don't worry I feel u cause until college I was shifting between friend groups and people cause I didn't seem to fit in or drama happened honestly it's the worse but it is good you hang out with a group of girls, to be honest, I don't think they don't like u maybe they just don't know how to interact with u for example in my friend group there are quite a lot of quiet ppl who I won't mind speaking to but it is a struggle to have a convo with them as they can't keep the convo going so most ppl just give up and let them do their own thing
I'm pretty sure if they didn't like u they would've told u to leave by now.
so the best advice is to be more social it might make u feel more welcome but also remember you have 4 months of college which is quite a short length of time and most ppl tend to distance themselves from their friends anyway when they go to college/uni so you won't be the only one and tbh ur focus is a level u shouldn't let what's going on in ur personal life affect u

in regards to Crush NGL I'm the worst person to ask for love advice but have u spoken to him, like do u get along, or do u follow him on social media?
Reply 2
Original post by nobody_000
don't worry I feel u cause until college I was shifting between friend groups and people cause I didn't seem to fit in or drama happened honestly it's the worse but it is good you hang out with a group of girls, to be honest, I don't think they don't like u maybe they just don't know how to interact with u for example in my friend group there are quite a lot of quiet ppl who I won't mind speaking to but it is a struggle to have a convo with them as they can't keep the convo going so most ppl just give up and let them do their own thing
I'm pretty sure if they didn't like u they would've told u to leave by now.
so the best advice is to be more social it might make u feel more welcome but also remember you have 4 months of college which is quite a short length of time and most ppl tend to distance themselves from their friends anyway when they go to college/uni so you won't be the only one and tbh ur focus is a level u shouldn't let what's going on in ur personal life affect u

in regards to Crush NGL I'm the worst person to ask for love advice but have u spoken to him, like do u get along, or do u follow him on social media?

im a male,
Reply 3
Original post by khv42
im a male,

omg I'm so sorry I didn't know - I shouldn't have assumed like that
but the point I'm tryna to make is that if the group of guys u hang out with don't like u they would have told u to leave
do they attempt to have a convo with u?
also how close are you with ur crush?
Original post by khv42
im 17 and have very few friends, the ones i have i only talk to briefly.
i wish i could have a proper friend group, especially with girls, who i hung out with regularly. ive wanted one for years but i dont know where to start, it just seems people are not interested in me. everyone else i know fits in fine except me.

what can i do? i only have under 4 months of college before i will leave and never see any of them again. i also still havent asked out my crush which ive had since the start of y12, which just shows how much of a loser i am...

if you want to get to know people then you have to open up and forget about all your insecurities and the environment.

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