Recently found out that I failed last year (my first year). I had to attempt it twice, and I didn't even succeed. I have undiagnosed ADHD, and have been on the NHS waiting list for a diagnosis for 2.5 years. My condition makes life difficult in more ways than I am able to list. Everything is a struggle for me, even basic things that most people don't have to think about. And if I find something boring, I am completely unable to engage with it.
Any problem that I might have has to be filtered through layers of bureaucracy. It isn't just enough to see my student adviser about a problem I have. Student adviser will tell me to try speaking to X person or Y department. So I do that. Then they tell me about the things that they can do (usually not a lot, to be perfectly honest). And then nothing happens, and there is no follow-up correspondence. All while waiting at least a week in between being able to see all these people, so I usually end up forgetting what happened, or if anything even happened at all.
Literally everything is digital now. Assessments, assignments, are all given to us via the university's digital distribution site. It is painful to navigate, and bombards me with so much information that I can barely pay attention to it. I haven't handed anything in this semester, because I don't even know what I am meant to hand in.
I have missed so many lectures that I don't even know what I am meant to be studying right now. Now that the sun is out for most of the day again, I find myself able to attend all my lectures again. And I cannot follow them at all. I just don't have the prior knowledge to understand any of what is being discussed. And I find it so boring that I can't even try to learn it by myself when I'm at home.
I'm going to have to do this year all over again (and presumably my first year as well...?). I hate to imagine that I will just be stuck doing an undergraduate well into my 20s, failing over and over again, while everybody else is getting jobs, postgrads, partners, dogs and kids. This year is the last year that SAAS will fund me, so I think I'll have to pay tuition in 2025. All for a degree that probably isn't very useful anyway.
I am starting to wonder if I am just too disabled to do anything. The lease on my accommodation ends this summer, and I am looking at places to rent in this city, where prices average at about £1,000pcm. I have absolutely no idea how I am going to afford to live next year. I have savings, but I wanted to use them for gender-affirming surgery which isn't covered by the NHS. I couldn't bear to lose out on that opportunity just because I had to pay rent for another year. It would be so easy to just drop out and go live in some crappy rural town for £350pcm. It would be a miserable life, but at least I would be able to afford it.