Please just help me, Well about 2 ish years ago..Yes 2 years..When my family went on hoilday me and my sister made a bet (very foolish I know), like a 'pulling' kind of bet , to keep ourselves entertained.
It was only for 3 WEEKS, and this only happened really on the last week.
Anyways, I just had to pick this guy who I knew fancied me as I wanted to win the bet .He isn't a looker, I felt really bad for leading him on and even sick/dirty because I don't even fancy him. (it didn't do anything couldn't really go through with it most I did was a peck on the lips ON THE DAY BEFORE WE LEFT)
Not once did I say anything like 'were together' it's was like a one off thing, nothing serious and he knew it. We were both old enough to know this (17)
I did give him my number and email, because I felt bad.
But I wish I hadn't, the guy was calling at early hours of the morning, texting constantly and emailing me too.
I tried everything! blanking his calls and emails, some how he seems to think were an 'item' and in a relationship, he psychologically trying to twist words in emails he says how i 'promised him i wont leave him'. That is totally not true! why would I say that to someone I met on hoilday. and he keeps calling me his 'gurl' it makes me feel sick. Also staying stuff like he can't live without me and that he loves me.
I finally emailed him stating to leave me alone then changed my email address and number,Which was about a year ago.
Now about 2 months ago I created a facebook, and 2 days after my facebook was created he friend requested me (only has 11 friends on fb). I honestly found that very creepy knowing that he has been searching my name in search engines constantly for years. Needless to say, I ignore he's friend request then the following day he added me as a friend again, I ignore it about 5 times and he kept sending friend requests so I blocked him. A month later I cleared my blocked list hoping that he had gotten the picture but no, he was back friend requesting me a couple days later (see really obsessed the guy types my name everytime), Now hes been sending pokes.
I don't know what to do? I'm tired of being the nice girl I feel like telling him to leave me the **** alone and stop stalking me, my other email is filled with junk mail from him remember it's almost going to 2 years.
I feel hes partly doing this because i'm practically the best offer there is good looking (not to sound conceited), wealthy and live abroad.
I just feel sick any time I think of him, his face and everything.
What can I do? i've ignore the guy for about a year and a half and he's just not getting the picture?
serious advice please.