Hi.When i started uni 10 weeks ago i met this girl that I have become very good friends with in that time. We always hang about with each other in uni and have a few things planned over xmas etc.. (it's not always just me and her, it just so happens that she's in all my classes unlike the rest of our uni friends, so i naturally spend most time with her). We get on great together and always have a laugh. After about 4/5 weeks we kissed and made it known that we both liked each other. I asked her out but she said she wasnt 'feeling good about that side of things atm', but was insistent that she really did like me.
Anyways, I think there is this other guy that either likes her or that she likes. Whichever it is.. something may be going on there (i have my suspicions). This guy is totally different from me and is stereotypically what a girl would go for. In terms of looks, all modesty going out the window here, but i think i'm better looking. I'm taller and just have an overall nicer face. He's very short and quite tubby around the belly (barely).
But, this guy, like my friend, is always out at clubs etc.. He's the guy that knows absolutely everyone in the club and is always introducing you to knew folk. Perhaps more significantly a lot of people know him. This is partly due to his job (he pr's) and he works at an alternative clothing shop where he meets a lot of bands etc.. We were at a gig the other night and i mentioned some band in a convo and he hit out with 'oh, i'm good friends with them'. My jaw dropped and was pretty much like 'how the f am i meant to compete with that'. He has the 'i dont give a **** attitude' and is very decisive. Always the domineering male of any group. I'm the complete opposite.. not really laddish, kinda quiet, not got the greatest confidence in the world and i don't go out all that much. But when i'm with her alone i feel completely at ease and as i say we have a good time together. I can get quite.. erm bubbly (?) and make a dick outta myself which makes her laugh wheares this guy didnt laugh once the full night, but kept conversation going very well. Doesnt look like he lets loose or maybe he's just not the type of person to get quite jovial.
She did say she wasnt sure how much time she wanted to spend with him (being slightly dismissive). But you know that kinda guy just seems to get girls regardless of what they think of them.
At this point in time I feel like all the fun we have together is gonna go to waste. And this guy who is just there is gonna end up going somewhere with my friend.
I'm disillusioned as to how this guy is more attractive than me (if he is at all, just going by the stereotype).. so any answers? Does status beat funny in terms of attractiveness?