Is he a virgin too? Bit cheeky of him to say that Three fingers never hurt me as a virgin, and guys have said I'm tight. If you're turned on then you naturally open up to 'accommodate'.
MY gf is a virgin and she's tight, very rarely can more than 1 finger fit it. Having sex is gonna be a task the first few times. She does kegels so that might be the reason. Try it out.
advice to OP: if you can fit both hands inside your vagina and you can clap, you need to start doing something called "kegel exercises" ASAP mixed with some lower-abdominal exercises that also work your pubic region
That's quite mean. If you do sleep with him tell him he's small.
And fingering shouldn't hurt if done right anyway.
If you want to "tighten" then you can do kegel exercises I suppose. I don't think it's necessary though.
This.
Anyway this ignorance and urban myth needs to end.
Women shouldn't be tight, bleeding and in agony their first time. Some chicks will be, some will have no issue.
Not everyone is the same.
As for the hymen thing, seriously, its basically covered in every sex ed thing that it can break for any number of reasons and most of those are not sex.