Anon or delete for obvious reasons.
I have tubular breasts.
If you don't know what this means, do a Google search.
In terms of how it affects me and how I feel about them, I have okay days and bad days. Today is a bad day where I feel really upset about them and am thinking about surgery.
I know the NHS sometimes pay for correction when they have a major psychological impact, but honestly, I don't know if the impact on me is all that "severe". It's just the way my mind works that I don't generally get upset about stuff that I can't change. If the surgery isn't available to me, yeah I'll be upset, but I'll get over it because I'll have to. Like when someone dies.
As for what men think, well my current bf is fine with them. That's really not the issue that bothers me. It's a question of self confidence and how I feel as a woman, if that isn't too droll a phrase.
So in order to get surgery, should I be candid with a GP about my attitude? Or just focus on how thoroughly awful it makes me feel? How likely is it that I would get approval? (Paying for it is not an option.)
Because I definitely do want the surgery if I can get it. I have thought this through properly, I'm 20, have known the name of my condition since I was 15, and been set on getting the surgery if possible for about 3 years now. It's not like I'd be doing this on a whim or something.
It's not like I've been corrupted by "the media" either and want
perfect and big boobs. I understand that there are many different shapes and sizes. I just want them to be within normal parameters, and as long as they are, I'm really not massively fussy how they turn out. The only thing I do care about actually is that they don't get made significantly bigger.
Okay, don't bother to post on this thread if you're going to say some bull**** like "Everyone is different, I'm sure they look fine and they're normal" simply because you are
factually incorrect. Tubular breasts are recognised as a congenital deformity. Do some research as to how and why they form the way they do and you will come to understand why they are not, in strict medical terms, normal (aesthetics aside). If you cba: it involes constricted tissues and similar fun stuff; genuinely abnormal breast development.
Lying to me won't make me feel better, so don't bother spamming up my thread with lies. Thanks.
If anyone here has had the surgery or has the same problem, and has something to share about it, that would be great.
What happens when you see a GP about this?
Do you have to go for counselling? Because honestly the last time I had counselling I felt like I'd need counselling to get over the counselling, lol.
Yeah but seriously... I hated every second of it and don't want to end up going through that again unless I'm going to get something out of it.
Sorry this was so long!