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How long does it take to reach orgasm when masturbating? (females)

Anon or delete, please.

This is really, really stupid. I'm a little bit insecure about how long it takes me to orgasm when I masturbate. I'm a female (obv), and no this isn't some like "YES LADIES PLEASE TELL ME SO THAT I MIGHT TOUCH MYSELF THINKING ABOUT RANDOM FEMALES ON THE INTERNET DOING THE SAME"

It's just, it takes me about 10-20 minutes to orgasm by myself, and I always read about girls going on how they can cum in seconds or a minute or 5 or something everyyytime. My BF and I have a time difference of 7 hours (long distance) so friskytime doesn't always work out, and there's been less of that lately, so I think maybe that's also made it a little harder to get aroused (due to fewer "fresh" memories and images and videos, etc - I don't really get turned on by most porn, he's what really does it for me).

Aggh. How long does it take the females of TSR to finish when they masturbate?

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rofl

Your BF must be wonderkid if you cannot navigate through your own plumbing department.



Most men need a satnav with women around there but he sounds like god himself.
er, like half an hour.

Took waaaay longer with my boyfriend though.
It's not abnormal at all, it takes most women a while. I envy those of them who can come from just sex!
Errr... why would you want to minimize the time you spend experiencing pleasure? :confused:
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Original post by HARRY PUTAH
rofl

Your BF must be wonderkid if you cannot navigate through your own plumbing department.



Most men need a satnav with women around there but he sounds like god himself.


What? Navigate through my own plumbing department? What do you mean? I know my ladybits very well, thanks. They're my favorite-est in the world and we've spent our whole lives together.

But nah, the LDR thing was because we do skype and dirty talk and everything. It's not sex, but what else can you do when you're an ocean away?
Reply 5
Original post by Pink Bullets
Errr... why would you want to minimize the time you spend experiencing pleasure? :confused:


It's not that, really. I could edge for hours if I wanted to just maximize pleasure. It's just, how the **** do they reach orgasm that quickly? I'm envious.
Anything from 2 minutes really... Takes longer when there's another person involved though.
Reply 7
Hm I take a while but the boyfriend speeds things up :wink: Probs about anything from 20-40 mins with him. He's better than I am (pretty shameful :P) so by myself it might even be up to an hour or something ridiculous like that.
I can make myself cum in 1 minute but I deliberately draw it out for about 5-10 minutes so the climax is better, it can be quite hard though as I'm forcing myself to not cum :P Sex takes longer but I can cum several times.
Reply 9
about 5 mins
Surely it all depends? If you're super horny, you'll cum quicker - you can't say it takes me X long to cum, every time is different.
Reply 11
Original post by DiZZeeKiD
Surely it all depends? If you're super horny, you'll cum quicker - you can't say it takes me X long to cum, every time is different.


Sure, but it's a relatively simple thing to estimate, yes? It's not like in one week you'll cum in 1 minutes, 25, 5, 15, 30, 1, and then an hour. So I'm just looking for rough estimates. ^^
A minute or two. I don't know how to make it last longer, though I heard it's better if I do :sad:
i'd say 10 mins or longer. i used to be able to do it quickly but can't seem to anymore
Reply 14
anything between 2 and 15 minutes usually. deends on the mood im in.
usually it can take from 3 minutes to about 40 :colondollar: just depends what mood i'm in really... it's better when it lasts for longer imo though...the orgasm seems a lot more satisfying! (although i have experienced a few times where it was just starting to get frustrating after about 1 hour or so!)
If I think about it before hand then the quickest would be about 10 mins but it can take as long as 30 mins!
Make sure you're totally relaxed that may speed things along a little! :smile:
Reply 17
Most of my exes took 5-10 minutes to get there through either fingering or sex, and orgasm number two (or three) comes pretty easily after that a lot of the time. One took literally 30 seconds to a minute and the another took 30-45 minutes *shrugs* If your bf can hit the spot then you have nothing to worry about really.
my girlfiend can orgasm within a few minutes if we are both turned on and just fancy a quicky! or if we take our time, teasing each other and stopping just before each other orgasms it can go for an hour, but its worth it ;-)
Reply 19
Original post by Anonymous
What? Navigate through my own plumbing department? What do you mean? I know my ladybits very well, thanks. They're my favorite-est in the world and we've spent our whole lives together.

But nah, the LDR thing was because we do skype and dirty talk and everything. It's not sex, but what else can you do when you're an ocean away?


Move there.

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