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How do you find a girlfriend in university?

I have spent all term trying to get with a girl, and in our friendship group they all know im trying, it seems really impossible. Now everyone at uni is in their groups there is no way in hell an outsider could ask a girl out from that group so you see what i mean?

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Reply 1

infernalcradle

obviously you can't just waltz into a group of people and ask one out....

when you see someone you like and vaguely know....walk over and say hi....but when they are alone....

ps. this doesn't mean stalk them and walk up to them in a dark alleyway somewhere

Reply 2

Aack

You need to look in places that other people don't - find a skip and have a look in there.

Reply 3

The Stig

You're trying too hard. No one likes 'one of those' people.

Reply 4

username453132

Why 'try' and find a girlfriend? That whole idea doesn't make any sense too me.

Reply 5

JayTeeKay

Dutch courage can be bought for as little as 3.25 pence per millilitre.

Reply 6

HumanNature1992

Original post by The Stig

You're trying too hard. No one likes 'one of those' people.

yea this

Reply 7

Cheesecakefactory

Run into the middle of the group and whip your cock out.

Reply 8

LJGroom

Ask those in 'the know' of a map as to wear this treasure lies.

Reply 9

chlobofro

Stop trying. When the right girl comes along, make a move. Don't be one of those guys that flirts with any attractive girl and comes off desperate.

Reply 10

rY4uGD1fMzBj4xe2

They're always in the last place you look.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Original post by chlobofro

Stop trying. When the right girl comes along, make a move. Don't be one of those guys that flirts with any attractive girl and comes off desperate.

But the right girl wont come along because in university, people close off into groups and people dont speak to each other outside those groups!

Reply 12

chlobofro

Original post by Anonymous

But the right girl wont come along because in university, people close off into groups and people dont speak to each other outside those groups!

Go out and meet new people? Societies? Jobs?

Reply 13

Lexi99

Original post by Anonymous

But the right girl wont come along because in university, people close off into groups and people dont speak to each other outside those groups!

Yes they will. Its not like school where everyones in their little groups. People are much more open to meeting new people and socialising.

Dont just ask any and every girl you see just for the sake of it. Become friends with them, get to know them first before you ask them out. Dont just flit around from girl to girl hoping one will eventually say yes. Its blatantly obvious you dont like these girls for any reason other than they've got a vagina.

Reply 14

TheRealDarthVader

Make a poster. Somewhere along the lines of the following:

HELP!
Girlfriend Needed

Handsome intelligent guy seeks ladies for loving relationship
Applicants must be:
At least 5'7''
Not fat
Blonde
No smaller than a B Cup
Tolerates football
Willing to put out, but must have a track record of not being a slag

Think you have the right credentials?
Contact me on: 123456789
Or email: [email protected]

Reply 15

Mujeriego

Original post by TheRealDarthVader

Make a poster. Somewhere along the lines of the following:

HELP!
Girlfriend Needed

Inept man from internet seeks ladies for loving relationship
Applicants must be:
Human or some form of intelligent mammal.

Think you have the right credentials?
Contact me on: 123456789
Or email: [email protected]

Think this is a bit closer to OP's predicament.

Reply 16

TheRealDarthVader

Original post by Mujeriego

Think this is a bit closer to OP's predicament.

Nice one, brah. But I didn't want to damage his confidence. :biggrin:

Reply 17

GGekko

Locate with binoculars. Move in with a net.

Reply 18

Just-Some-Guy

Original post by Anonymous

You wait until you think someone in your group actually likes you, talks to you a considerable amount in the first term and over christmas, when youve spent time together and bought them an awesome presnt until you come back next term when they act like a cold freakin bitch towards you, make you regret chosing to live with them over your housemates next year, despite the fact that conversation is awkward to the point of being painful making you wish you'd never actually gone to that stupid forensic chem lecture in the first week!! :angry: