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Its been my type since I can remember or even knew what a type was. Its nothing to do with fads or what looks 'in' at the moment, I've always been repulsed by extreme masculinity.

Same. I've always been repulsed by extreme masculinity. I just see it as broad and vulgar. I don't see it as classy or sophisticated. I am drawn to creativity and sensitivity and articulateness. A beer swilling football mad yob built like a brick **** house just seems like someone I just couldnt connect with.

I'm not on the pill by the way. I've always preferred slightly androgynous looking men.

Slim athletic I'd say is my ideal build but I'm not really THAT arsed. As long as he isn't really muscly it's a win.

I'd rather date someone a bit overweight than someone bulked up with huge muscles. YUCK

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Reply 81

ShinyLittleTit™

Original post by Eveiebaby

Same. I've always been repulsed by extreme masculinity. I just see it as broad and vulgar.

I'm not on the pill by the way. I've always prefered slightly androgynous looking men.

Slim athletic I'd say is my favourite ideal build but I'm not really that arsed. As long as he isn't really muscly it's a win.

I'd rather date someone a bit overweight than someone bulked up with huge muscles.

shut the **** up

Reply 82

dmz

Original post by reisen

Do not understand that at all but they do seem to like "cute" things over there. Give me a hunk of a rugby player any day! :P

What the hell was the neg for? explain yourself!

+1, balance is not restored :tongue:

oh and i used to play rugby in high school :sexface:

Original post by ShinyLittleTit™

shut the **** up

I'd say what I like thanks. Just because you don't want to hear it doesn't give you the right to censor it.

:smile:

Reply 85

4ttari

Original post by hareandhound

I think that lots of effeminate men, especially when they have the emo/androgynous style, are very manipulative and trick women into bed, to a far greater extent than most normal guys.

Haha, right on the dot mate!

I wouldn't say they are 'effeminate men', i call them tactical men.

Reply 86

Iorek

So that's why far eastern women don't want me :frown:

Reply 87

infernalcradle

Original post by Harry.C

It's so they can have someone to chat to about desperate housewives. The only conversation I ever have with a women involves pirates, sandwiches and tabasco.

haha....I talk about boobs and stuff with the girls I know :biggrin:

Reply 88

infernalcradle

Original post by 4ttari

Haha, right on the dot mate!

I wouldn't say they are 'effeminate men', i call them tactical men.

I call them "deserve to be shot so as not to sully the human gene pool men".....

Reply 89

BradP

Yes because men pretending to be women on a forum and whining about effeminate men getting too much attention is the way to go.

Reply 90

Zander5

Original post by frequent_flyer

Wearing skinny jeans or straightening your hair doesn't suddenly change your biology!

Not on there own they dont make you effieminate some of my mates straighten their hair but they are still one of the lads but its a combination of long hair, being extremely skinny to the point where you think their starving themselves and generally not looking very masculine.

Original post by frequent_flyer

I personally only find really feminine looking men or really masculine ones attractive, somehow skipping out the middle.

So basically, don't do things by halves :biggrin:

That makes no sense thats like me liking girly girls (which i do) and the dyke looking ones that wear g-star raw and jack wills i.e looking like a lad.

Reply 91

ixxabelle

I think this is the same as how so many girls seem to really hate beards.

Am I only in thinking a little bit of manly facial hair is no bad thing (within reason)?

Reply 92

frequent_flyer

Original post by Zander5

Obviously I don't advocate anyone starving themselves :eek:

but honestly, I think feminate guys are pretty. Feminine clothes such as skinny jeans often accentuate a broad chest and strong jaw, so the guy ends up looking more masculine than if he was wearing a t shirt and baggy jeans.

That makes no sense thats like me liking girly girls (which i do) and the dyke looking ones that wear g-star raw and jack wills i.e looking like a lad.

There's definitely a difference between wearing trackies and looking dykey! I think the most attractive people are comfortable with themselves and their style reflects that.

Reply 93

reisen

Original post by dmz

+1, balance is not restored :tongue:

oh and i used to play rugby in high school :sexface:

Well helloooo :fan:

Reply 94

dmz

Original post by reisen

Well helloooo :fan:

Haha to be fair i did just about every sport available :tongue:

Reply 95

hippieglitter

Original post by ConorMC

Hong kong is not in Japan -_-
look at an atlas.

My thoughts exactly.
Just my opinion but I could never be attracted to an effeminate man. Love the rugged, masculine, alpha male type.

Reply 96

reisen

Original post by dmz

Haha to be fair i did just about every sport available :tongue:

where did you go to school?

Reply 97

username240699

Nothing wrong with looking pretty

Reply 98

baffled_mathman

If you look at pictures of men who women find most attractive, you'll find they invariably look effeminate "cute".

Take a look at this: http://www.plentyoffish.com/hot500.aspx

The "top 500" is mainly women, but even though I'd probably get 4 out of 10 on there, I'd rather look like me than most of the men there!