Look, I'm a guy. Self confessed master of the friend zone. I, personally, have MANY friends (even best friends) who are girls, but I never get any further with them, just friends. My friends say that when a girl looks at a guy, then they either put them in their friend zone, on their fancy zone (ugly or good looking) - leading me to think of myself as ugly. Since then, my self esteem has got the better of me. Not depression, because I'm not one for wallowing in self-pity, but just.. well.. insecurity. Looking back on pictures of myself, I am ****ing ugly. Whenever I look in the mirror, I suck in my cheeks, I try to be good looking but just fail - and yes, I know, it feels ****. I'm fat, but can't lose weight for the life of me. And not like, fat fat; I'm that stage where you're not really classified as fat, but youre not skinny, so you dress like a skinny person, but (my) moobs and love handles just pertrude. I gave up on looks for a bit, but walking out of the house and seeing good looking people made me feel so ****. But then I learnt why am I trying to be something I am not [generic i know], but seriously. I manned the **** up and started accepting that I'm no male model, it's something that everyone who isn't (in the immortal words of Derek Zoolander) 'really, really, rediculously good-looking' has to come to terms with. But when you do, it feels ****ing great. There is someone there out for you, I'm a 16 year old guy, and never kissed a girl.
Yeah letting off stream helps! x