To what extent are you okay with your girlfriend/boyfriend flirting with others?

I don't mind it at all when it's playful teasing as I do the same, but when it's overt and sexual it really upsets me... but I'm not sure if I'm abnormal in feeling like this and need to chill out about it more.

So how do you feel about it?
(Anon as he uses this. Thanks.)

Threesome...

Zilch. The next step after flirting is cheating...

Reply 3

FuzzySheep

15

My boyfriend does it lightly, in front of me... it really is actually upsetting.

Reply 4

Doyle&TheFourFathers

11

i'd get angry, upset and jealous if she didn't flirt with other people.

im just joshing. i dont have a girlfriend

(edited 13 years ago)

Reply 5

Dream Weaver

14

If she doesn't sleep with them, then it's ok.

Reply 6

.Ali.

3

Original post by Anonymous

I don't mind it at all when it's playful teasing as I do the same, but when it's overt and sexual it really upsets me... but I'm not sure if I'm abnormal in feeling like this and need to chill out about it more.

So how do you feel about it?
(Anon as he uses this. Thanks.)

I'm okay with it as long as it's just verbal. I don't mind him flirting a little, because I'm a big ol' flirt so it would be a tad hypocritical of me. :colondollar:

Reply 7

Harry.C

8

I enjoy it. But i'm cuckolded so...

No extent.

I'm not ok with it lol, it just indicates a constant need for attention and general needyness.

Reply 10

sete

Like most other men i have met, im not okay with it in the slightest.

Reply 11

Anonymous #2

i flirt with people... but i think it really is that i'm an over friendly drunk, and behave the same to all genders. boys and girls.

i was 'overfriendly' to a guy once, whilst i had a boyfriend, and i offered to walk with him somewhere he had to go after a night out (as i would so for any friend) then i was cold. he gave me his jaket, even though i said no.. then he came on to me. so i led him on?

i've never actually seen my boyfriend flirt with anyone in front of me. thankfully.

Reply 12

JongKey

14

I don't get it - why would you want to flirt with others when you have aperfectly fine boyfriend/girlfriend with you (unless they're not good enough). This isn't an insult to those who do, i'm just curious as to why?

Reply 13

NOBODY MOVE!

14

i would not be okay if he did this with others at all.

thankfully my guy has zero social skills, so i think i'm safe on this :'D

Reply 14

ApplePi

2

Original post by Anonymous

i flirt with people... but i think it really is that i'm an over friendly drunk, and behave the same to all genders. boys and girls.

i was 'overfriendly' to a guy once, whilst i had a boyfriend, and i offered to walk with him somewhere he had to go after a night out (as i would so for any friend) then i was cold. he gave me his jaket, even though i said no.. then he came on to me. so i led him on?

i've never actually seen my boyfriend flirt with anyone in front of me. thankfully.

I read that as 'he came on me'.

I was like no wonder your boyfriend wasn't happy with it...!

Reply 15

.Ali.

3

Wow, a lot of posessive men on here! :lolwut:

Reply 16

littleshambles

14

strikes me as disrespectful. if you really absolutely cannot help but do it, at least try not to do it when your other half is RIGHT THERE.

Reply 17

username694843

12

Original post by JongKey

I don't get it - why would you want to flirt with others when you have aperfectly fine boyfriend/girlfriend with you (unless they're not good enough). This isn't an insult to those who do, i'm just curious as to why?