peeing, farting, period in front of bf/gf

I was not talking about him purposefully farting just when I'm about to ravish him. but it happens, it is a natural bodily function, doesn't mean he's less attractive. to me it's almost a part of how close we are and comfortable we are with each other. you are meant to pee you know, as for farting, it happens..

so I'd like to ask what you think or how you act regarding these things.

I'm a girl, my bf would fart in front of me, I wouldn't have issues about peeing in front of him, we have had sex numerous times when I was on my period, ie he's seen sanitary towels half used (you know what I mean) as well and just generally discuss every tiny detail even regarding that if he asks..

are you the same or do/would these things gross you out?

This and Ilora-Danon I wouldn't fart freely in front of my boyfriend and if he started doing it I think I'd request that he stop! It's a sign that you don't feel the need to impress each other anymore in my eyes...dangerous

I'm supposed to be impressed that someone holds a fart in ?

That's the last thing that impresses me about someone. If your partner is still making the effort to look good for you, prepare romantic everings and surprise you with things then they are still trying to impress you. Why can't they be comfortable enough around you while doing it ? I don't know about everyone else but holding it in gets pretty uncomfortable for me.

If a girl ever told me to stop I'd tell her to do one.

Well I've been with my bf a while and we don't do it in front of each other. I'd just see it as a sign that we were getting too comfortable with each other, perhaps becoming a bit 'sloppy'...I wouldn't do it in front of even my closest friends so why would I do that in front of the man who I want to see me as sexually attractive? I guess I just see it as a lack of manners...he hasn't done it so far, why start now. I really would ask him to leave the room if he wanted to do that, same as I would my friends...

Same with peeing in front of each other really - I don't feel compelled to leave the door open while my friends are round, or to pee while they are in the bathroom if they stay over at my house, so why do I suddenly need my boyfriend to be present when I'm emptying my bladder?

(and FYI I'm 24, have been in a couple of serious relationships and lived with my ex-boyfriend for two years so I'm not exactly immature or inexperienced in relationships...)

Well I've been with my bf a while and we don't do it in front of each other. I'd just see it as a sign that we were getting too comfortable with each other, perhaps becoming a bit 'sloppy'...I wouldn't do it in front of even my closest friends so why would I do that in front of the man who I want to see me as sexually attractive? I guess I just see it as a lack of manners...he hasn't done it so far, why start now. I really would ask him to leave the room if he wanted to do that, same as I would my friends...

Same with peeing in front of each other really - I don't feel compelled to leave the door open while my friends are round, or to pee while they are in the bathroom if they stay over at my house, so why do I suddenly need my boyfriend to be present when I'm emptying my bladder?

(and FYI I'm 24, have been in a couple of serious relationships and lived with my ex-boyfriend for two years so I'm not exactly immature or inexperienced in relationships...)

Why on earth would I want to see my Gf taking a piss or her sanitary deposits? ****ign freaks that people are these days.

I didn't mean to imply you were immature or inexperienced I'm just responding to your post with my opinion.

There is a difference between farting and peeing though. Pee is obviously messy and unsanitary (I know pee itself is sterile but it provides the perfect environment for bacterial growth). Farting on the other hand is completely different. Aside from the smell (which lets face it is far from the worst thing you will ever smell most of the time) then what is the problem with it ?

Why inconvenience someone to leave the room ? When it's something everyone does. There is a difference between your bf having to actively move to go to the toilet with you to watch you pee as apposed to him just being able to fart where he is. I mean leaving the room to fart when I'm with someone I'm supposed to be completely comfortable with ? Doesn't make sense to me.

I think too many women let men fart and they don't do it themselves (not talking about you anymore here because you said your bf doesn't do it in front of you). It sounds weird but to me it sort of gives the boy some sort of upper hand ? I think girls should be doing it as well.

My posts make me sound like some sort of "Lad" but I don't have this free approach all the time. Obviously I wouldn't fart in front of lots of people I don't know very well but she's my gf. I personally think it's a sign that both people are truly comfortable with each other. This may sound weird but to me you are trusting the other person not to judge you for farting like they would judge most other people.

Yes, my main point was you calling someone wrong because they are of one opinion. Thus im trying to get it into your obviously already so full mind that many other people are of the same opinion thus you have no right to call someone 'wrong' for it.

Good luck with the inability to form any type of argument . Really, it's amazing, trying say someone is immature for having a certain opinion, an opinion that is widely known to be widely 'popular' .. it's really quite cute, bless, dropped on the head i guess?

I look forward to your next reply, probably try to comment on grammar or spelling again whilst still avoiding the main point. Should be fun, no?

her 'opinion', that it was always certainly unhygienic was factually incorrect.

by the way, it's completely irrelevant to the thread, but just because an opinion is popular doesn't make it somehow less objectionable, im astounded at your 'logic' there.

it's like saying, in my opinion, Bury is bigger than London. it just isn't. just because i said 'in my opinion' first doesn't make it beyond criticism.

frankly im surprised by the level of vitriol in your post, stop clogging up the thread by insulting other members in a rather childish and pointless fashion. feel free to pm me if it helps to relieve your clearly massive level of anger.

what's up, girlfriend dumped you cause you cried about period blood?