Says he likes me but doesn't want a relationship?

You told him you shouldn't get into anything so he shifted into reverse gear. How can you not see what you did?!

But how could he not know what he wants? it seems like he really meant what he said in the text. did i really mess it up?!



what do you mean :/ they're my friends as well..

"I was thinking about what you said last night about how you don't know what you want. and if so then theres really no point in starting anything between us so maybe we should just stay friends.."

You say you like him, but you sent him a message saying "maybe we should just stay friends"?? Of course that will confuse him and make him back off. Maybe the better thing would have been to say..you don't know what you want, and thats fine, but we can just try this and see what might happen.

You have pretty much friend zoned the guy.

Do you like him?

If so tell him, text him now saying you like him etc and what you want. Be nice

If he likes you,
He will text you back saying he likes you.

Be honest with each other in that part and see where that takes you.

The more you tell him how you feel, the more he'll tell you how he feels; thus the more he will be able to tell what he wants and you guys will be able to work something out.

Enough of the vague confused messages, just be direct and see where it takes you.

Source: been there, done that


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What do I do now? I really like him but I'm not sure what to think of this. Should I just act like nothing happened the next time I see him and move on?

I'd say something like "if we like each other, we should definitely give it a go. Most people don't really know what they want, and you can get hurt in any relationship. Lets just start out slow and see where things go".

I've said similar things to girls as what he said, because I was scared of commitment and didn't want to lead the girl on, not because I didn't like her.

lead the girl on how?

Have her make all these long term plans for us, when theres a good chance I might turn around soon and be like "yeah, this is a bit heavy for me at this age". Basically I was enjoying being a bit of a lad, and I've always seen myself as a very independent person, and I wasn't sure I was ready to give that up. In the end that didn't happen, and I'm still with her two years later.

To be honest, I think if you guys don't go out you're bottling it a bit. Yes, people can get hurt, that's life, it's for living.

Should I say something like: "I do really like you though. sorry about before..i think i was just focusing on one thing that you said and then the next morning you left kind of abruptly without saying much of anything so i was a little confused but what I'm trying to say is..something bad could happen..you could hurt me or i could hurt you..which is the last thing i want to happen..but i'm willing to try it if you still are.."