I'm Muslim but I've realised I'm definitely bisexual...

I'm a Muslim too and female and am bisexual too but I have never acted upon it.

As a practicing muslim, can you imagine my face and thoughts when I read this. Go repent and read the quran. You say your scared of hell.. Clearly not that scared.


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Life is a test
God is testing is ability to resist temptation to sin

And I clearly explained to you that I don't think it is reason enough.

I feel the same way, personally. But I was specifically talking about what Muslims believe and looking at it from the point of view of a Muslim.
If you can't even look at this from the point of view of a Muslim, then what is the point of this debate? There is none.

Ever heard of Mandela?
Praised and respected by many more billions around the world for doing all the things you claim your "prophet'' did, and then some! All the same, you don't see any sane, intelligent being Hating & Murdering all in his name even if he unlike your dude had neither any astronomically self-aggrandizing claims nor questionable sexual predilections, to say the least.

You out source your thinking to a mass idiocy that encourages salivating at the promise of 72 Virgins in the imaginary afterlife for taking one in the tangible and yet find homosexuality unacceptable?
Cum on buddy, don't waste your life, use your BRAIN!

P.S
Please learn to spell and endeavor to be as eloquent as any conscious human of your age/upbringing & experience would be if ever you wish to make a civilised argument of your persuasion; valid or nonsensical alike!

Opened this thread to have a nice chat and MAYBE even some banter about two lesbians going at it and all I do it bloody walk into a religion war.

Bore me more guys.

Religion is a path for those that feel they need it. It isn't proved nor can it be proved. If people believe they need religion as a tool to better themselves then go ahead. Who cares?

From where you get the number 72???!!!
Who the **** told you its imaginary life??? it might be real!!! who knows? You can not know what is going to happen in your life for the next 5 hours. You don't come here and shout for non-sense.

Some asses think they are smart, but they are the opposite.

Thanks to all those who have replied and tried to help. I didn't expect this to turn into a big debate between Muslims and Atheists!

I prefer girls but have to admit some guys I find incredibly attractive although my attraction towards guys is purely physical whereas with girls I can and have fallen in love.

I have started praying more and it has helped me to control not acting out on my desires with men but I have to admit the thoughts nor the desire have gone away.

I am a practising Muslim. I just want to say ignore the haters (be they Muslim or not). I understand that you have desires, but Islamic states that it is not wrong to have them, but wrong to act upon them [for various reasons]. I would suggest building your relationship with God. Talk to Him and pray and ask Him to help you through this [if you're deciding you want to come back to Him].

Everyone makes mistakes, everyone has tests and it's your choice to decide how you want to live. If you know that ultimately you want to abide by Islam, then just take this as a sin. Sincerely repent and focus your energy else where. It will be difficult at first, but you can do it with willpower. You said you find women attractive too, so it should not be as difficult. In all sincerity, it's a difficult 'test' to have, but the rewards and spirituality that come with can bring you so much peace. It's all about discipline, e.g. like sex before marriage. It's not impossible, but desires are everywhere. You just need to remind yourself how you want to live life and actively do it.

Good luck!

Hi. I am a British Muslim guy and I'm not very practising -- like the only time I ever go to mosque is on Eid basically -- but my family is quite conservative and stuff. I know homosexuality is a sin in Islam but...for a long time now--ever since I've been a teenager I've always found guys attractive as well as girls but could never admit it.

Only since I've come to University away from my family environment -- in a city where no one knows me -- have I finally admitted to myself that I am bi after having a few sexual experiences (basically, the first time i met a guy on gaydar and he invited me to his place and we ended up having oral sex) and though I really enjoyed it I have been feeling full of guilt ever since but also get turned whenever i think about it to the extent that I repeated it a couple of times...once with the same guy and another time with him and his mate...

Now I feel really guilty and don't know if I should tell anyone, hide it, or just accept i am bi and live my life. But I am also scared of Hell so....!

Help!

if i am honest the praying helps for a short time -- say a week -- and then the feelings come back stronger than ever and i want to do it badly and relapse again...

to those who asked for roughly every 3 girls i have sex with i have sex with one guy ...well i have never had sex with a guy/s only oral sex....and kinky stuff...

damn it makes me miserable! feel free to PM me if you have kindly advice but don't just PM to tell me 'bro it is haram!' i know that!

For starters insha'Allah, if you don't pray 5 times a day, make sure you start praying them.

Secondly, the best and only solution is to get married. Obviously this is easier said than done BUT for the sake of your emaan, you're going to have to find a way.

At the very least, even though what you're doing is a major sin, you consider it haram. Don't listen to people telling you to join gay 'muslim' sites or communities or whatever nonsense they propose. It's a quick route to apostasy with them trying to make what's haram, halal.