Would you stay with a partner if they spat at you?

We can all act like a knob when we drink but tbh, its no excuse, especially for being violent to someone. I would be livid if my partner done this. I would be more angry at the fact he threw his phone at me than spitting at me as that could have seriously hurt but spitting on someone is still gross and horrible.

Only you can decide what to do in this situation. Yes, there is a chance it was just an once off and he will have learned his lesson and will either cut down on drinking or will behave himself when drinking but more often than not, its a slippery slope and things like this tend to happen again and again especially if he feels he got away with it this time.

I think the spitting is worse than the phone throwing tbh, it's shows complete lack of respect and even disgust for someone.... The someone in this case being his "loved one".

I had this happen to me a few times. My ex whom I just cut off would get drunk and lose control. And because I love him I gave him way too many chances. We spoke seriously about it and I threatened I would leave if it happened again. Few Months went by without it happening and then last week an argument over chocolates made him spit in my face. I punched him in the mouth and kicked him out my house. He hasn't heard from me since. And he will no longer see or hear from me. It wasn't ok the first time and I should've left him after he revealed who he was initially. I had to seriously pray and realize I do not deserve that treatment and ask myself why I even allowed that in the first place. When you figure out who you are and love yourself it won't be an issue of whether or not to leave him. He's calling me as I write this and he will never get a call back. Good riddance. I'll patiently wait for the King God has for me. I pray you do the right thing. Love yourself. Goodluck.