Finding Sex while distant from my girlfriend!!

Hey girls and guys

I know the title may sound like cheating, but reality is that I am not. I have a healthy lovely relationship with my girlfriend back home for more than 6 years up to now. I am currently doing my Phd in London and started since one year ago.

For those who have experienced sex, you know how it feels when you cant do it for long time after being able to do it everyday, its like fire.

I am very faithful to my girlfriend and I tell her of all of what I am going through and she understands given that our relationship is deep enough she trusts my decision. So we discussed it thoroughly and she agreed that I should find some casual fun at least

Now the thing is I don't know where to find someone. I cant do escorts or one night stand. That just feels dull and empty. I cant do sex without some passion and love, its a must for me

Bars are not an option as I have stopped drinking long time ago, my time is quite limited too. So where else can I look for a passionate sex? I seriously need your suggestions

I am also polite which kept me unable to ask girls straight for coffee and sex

And please dont feel bad for my girlfriend, she is very considerate and if she said no she knows I would never do it

Any suggestions??

Reply 1

Skyy9432

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Original post by manoflove1

H I cant do escorts or one night stand. That just feels dull and empty. I cant do sex without some passion and love, its a must for me

Just curious, did you specifically mention this bit to her? I can understand why she'd let you sleep with someone else for the thrill. But, does she know you want to get passionate and intimate with them? Does she know you want to experience love with another person?

Reply 2

manoflove1

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Original post by Skyy9432

Just curious, did you specifically mention this bit to her? I can understand why she'd let you sleep with someone else for the thrill. But, does she know you want to get passionate and intimate with them? Does she know you want to experience love with another person?

It isn't nice to discuss every bit of my plan to her. But I guess yes I mentioned it in a way or another

She knows I am not looking for love. and when I say passionate doesnt mean falling in love but having friendship and sharing time before sex

Reply 3

Jemy

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Original post by manoflove1

Hey girls and guys

I know the title may sound like cheating, but reality is that I am not. I have a healthy lovely relationship with my girlfriend back home for more than 6 years up to now. I am currently doing my Phd in London and started since one year ago.

For those who have experienced sex, you know how it feels when you cant do it for long time after being able to do it everyday, its like fire.

I am very faithful to my girlfriend and I tell her of all of what I am going through and she understands given that our relationship is deep enough she trusts my decision. So we discussed it thoroughly and she agreed that I should find some casual fun at least

Now the thing is I don't know where to find someone. I cant do escorts or one night stand. That just feels dull and empty. I cant do sex without some passion and love, its a must for me

Bars are not an option as I have stopped drinking long time ago, my time is quite limited too. So where else can I look for a passionate sex? I seriously need your suggestions

I am also polite which kept me unable to ask girls straight for coffee and sex

And please dont feel bad for my girlfriend, she is very considerate and if she said no she knows I would never do it

Any suggestions??

Maybe you wanna check out the 'Kiiroo' by fleshlight, it comes in quite handy for a long distance relationship, only need a good webcam on each end :wink:

Reply 4

manoflove1

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Original post by Jemy

Maybe you wanna check out the 'Kiiroo' by fleshlight, it comes in quite handy for a long distance relationship, only need a good webcam on each end :wink:

That does slightly help, but over long period it makes a person more horny I guess

Reply 5

TurboCretin

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I'm gonna go out on a limb here and call troll.

Reply 6

manoflove1

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Original post by TurboCretin

I'm gonna go out on a limb here and call troll.

Dunno what that really means :confused:

Just admit, is it bad or good :wink:

??

Reply 7

Capitano

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obviously you dont love her enough. PERIOD!!! no discussion!!

Reply 8

Anonymous #1

Original post by Skyy9432

Just curious, did you specifically mention this bit to her? I can understand why she'd let you sleep with someone else for the thrill. But, does she know you want to get passionate and intimate with them? Does she know you want to experience love with another person?

Interestingly, there are psychological studies showing women are more, how to put it, well pissed off if a partner has an intimate, pasionate relationship. Therefore, for your own sake, I wouldn't say that, however, I strongly disagree with everything your doing.

Reply 9

DeanDouglas

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Original post by Capitano

obviously you dont love her enough. PERIOD!!! no discussion!!

Very true!

Reply 10

The two eds

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Original post by Capitano

obviously you dont love her enough. PERIOD!!! no discussion!!

He does love her but what you fail to understand is Men are victims to their own hormonal needs, he is the victim.

Reply 11

manoflove1

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Original post by Capitano

obviously you dont love her enough. PERIOD!!! no discussion!!

you are judging here and not helping at all. and maybe you havent been in such situation so I do understand your opinion

Reply 12

Crumpet1

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Mrs Palm and her five lovely daughters.

Reply 13

manoflove1

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Original post by Crumpet1

Mrs Palm and her five lovely daughters.

I dont watch porn and I hate it. So then masturbating is not an option for me. These things make me depressed

Reply 14

Aloogobi123

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I feel so sorry for you! Aww poor baby can't be with his gf so wants to sleep with other girls cos he can't deal with a long distance relationship

I hope she has enough self respect to throw you to the curb and I hope you get an STI if you cheat on her

Reply 15

Capitano

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dude, would you like her doing that to you? Knowing some dudes are toasting your gf while you are away. I am not judging, I have a gf who lives far from my uni, I just jump on train once every 2 weeks to see her. I do get urges at times but just get on with it. In my opinion you are asking for trouble. Cherish her mate, then do her good and proper when u see her!