Awful situation

I had to write to this girl some pretty bad news. As advised by the doctor and two nurses. She obviously understood what happened wasn't right, but I'm so angry she didn't go doctors/hospital when I advised. It's taken my soft written essay to make her go, "I'll go tomorrow (today)"

I now don't know if shes taken contraception either. What are the chances? I'm really anxious and as I await test results from the clinic for myself, as she was my first time.

I didn't reply to her all day yesterday. I accidentally called her and she replied within 10 seconds that she couldn't talk right now. What was I calling about? So obviously reading over my message 6 hours later.

I feel so glad I told her as if it potentially safes her live, that's a good deed right? I'm just worried about her as she's gone all quite.

Any advice? She knows I'm there for her!!

I don't know what she has. But what happened wasn't ideal, and she's obviously embarrassed and scared by it all. She's not read/replied to last night's message.

I appreciate how she's probably feeling but I've done nothing wrong (except not wear protection) and I've told her based on her symptoms at the time she should have gone hospital or consulted a doctor.

Its going to be difficult but I feel if I can meet up with her. We can sort it out, it's just where do we go from here.

I just hope she's not closing herself off from the world and hiding from this.

My ultimate goal is to see her again.

I don't know what she has. But what happened wasn't ideal, and she's obviously embarrassed and scared by it all. She's not read/replied to last night's message.

I appreciate how she's probably feeling but I've done nothing wrong (except not wear protection) and I've told her based on her symptoms at the time she should have gone hospital or consulted a doctor.

Its going to be difficult but I feel if I can meet up with her. We can sort it out, it's just where do we go from here.

I just hope she's not closing herself off from the world and hiding from this.

My ultimate goal is to see her again.

You lot are stupid...its clearly hes worried about having an STD.... listen mate just talk to her and try to contact her and tell her about the seriousness of the situation

You lot are stupid...its clearly hes worried about having an STD.... listen mate just talk to her and try to contact her and tell her about the seriousness of the situation

But he said that she was his 'first time'. And it's her who's worried about catching something, it doesn't make any sense. Maybe she's pregnant? I don't have a clue.

I don't know what she has. But what happened wasn't ideal, and she's obviously embarrassed and scared by it all. She's not read/replied to last night's message.

I appreciate how she's probably feeling but I've done nothing wrong (except not wear protection) and I've told her based on her symptoms at the time she should have gone hospital or consulted a doctor.

Its going to be difficult but I feel if I can meet up with her. We can sort it out, it's just where do we go from here.

I just hope she's not closing herself off from the world and hiding from this.

My ultimate goal is to see her again.

I had to write to this girl some pretty bad news. As advised by the doctor and two nurses. She obviously understood what happened wasn't right, but I'm so angry she didn't go doctors/hospital when I advised. It's taken my soft written essay to make her go, "I'll go tomorrow (today)"

I now don't know if shes taken contraception either. What are the chances? I'm really anxious and as I await test results from the clinic for myself, as she was my first time.

I didn't reply to her all day yesterday. I accidentally called her and she replied within 10 seconds that she couldn't talk right now. What was I calling about? So obviously reading over my message 6 hours later.

I feel so glad I told her as if it potentially safes her live, that's a good deed right? I'm just worried about her as she's gone all quite.

Any advice? She knows I'm there for her!!

Lets all play a guessing game...wth is he on about?

Why not tell us the whole story? people can then give you proper advice.

This is the main concern. Im covering myself by getting tested. I felt something abnormal, and then there was a lot of unusual bleeding to follow.

http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/977.aspx?CategoryID=118

During the situation she proper freaked out. Because it wasn't the monthly. If she hasn't been to a doctor, she's probably not told anyone and probably didn't take the morning after...

I'm hoping she goes today, but I've not heard from her. She asked me a question yesterday. I replied and she hasn't read it yet.

A doctor and three nurses told me to talk with her, but that if she doesn't respond leave her too it. I've done more than enough, but obviously if she needs me it's only kinda fair I'm there for her?

Thing is I'm deeply concerned about her. She obviously appreciates it, it's just this whole thing is weird and I'm not sure how she's reacting. Because it's awkward because of the embarrassment.

But I'm being a gentleman about it.

This is the main concern. Im covering myself by getting tested. I felt something abnormal, and then there was a lot of unusual bleeding to follow.

http://www.nhs.uk/chq/Pages/977.aspx?CategoryID=118

During the situation she proper freaked out. Because it wasn't the monthly. If she hasn't been to a doctor, she's probably not told anyone and probably didn't take the morning after...

I'm hoping she goes today, but I've not heard from her. She asked me a question yesterday. I replied and she hasn't read it yet.

A doctor and three nurses told me to talk with her, but that if she doesn't respond leave her too it. I've done more than enough, but obviously if she needs me it's only kinda fair I'm there for her?

Thing is I'm deeply concerned about her. She obviously appreciates it, it's just this whole thing is weird and I'm not sure how she's reacting. Because it's awkward because of the embarrassment.

But I'm being a gentleman about it.

Hopefully she went she is probably scared. If she didn't go why not offer to go with her for support.