Signs a girl has put you in the friendzone?

Anonymous #1

As the title states, what are the signs a girl sees you as just a friend?

Reply 1

Alfed

I care about you as a friend. :laugh:

Reply 2

jawsontheflooor

She tries to set your up with someone else

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

When she talks to you about all her problems, girls who see you as a potential bae would keep that **** on locks until she captured you. Hmm just talk to you really you can tell is there any flirting goiing on between you even playful ones? if so she likes you as more than a friend if not then :smile:

Reply 4

Josb

Guy: "Do you want to go to the restaurant with me?"

Girl: "Sure! I'm calling Vanessa and Beth, that's gonna be fun!"

Guy: :colonhash:

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 5

Zarek

She says no when you ask her out

Reply 6

username471863

Original post by Anonymous

I disagree. When I like a guy I try my best to just be normal. If I know and trust him well enough to talk about my problems I will.

Reply 7

dean01234

Talks to you about the guys that she's seeing

Reply 8

Rockstar North

"you're like my brother"

"I wish I could find a guy like you"

of course, i dont know as i've never got that.

Reply 9

theOldBean

Original post by Rockstar North

"you're like my brother"

"I wish I could find a guy like you"

of course, i dont know as i've never got that.

Of course, you've dated 6 girls at the same time, before (optionally) killing one of them in order to rob a casino. We can't all be as successful as you...

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 10

Rockstar North

Original post by theOldBean

Of course, you've dated 6 girls at the same time, before (optionally) killing one of them in order to rob a casino. We can't all be as successful as you...

Reply 11

Conkerr

Original post by Josb

Guy: "Do you want to go to the restaurant with me?"

Girl: "Sure! I'm calling Vanessa and Beth, that's gonna be fun!"

Guy: :colonhash:

This!! It happened to me so many times :angry:

Reply 12

Rum Ham

She says "why can't all guys be like you?"

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Reply 13

ellej93

Well. Girls are really unpredictable. Maybe it is better to be upfront with your feelings than assuming. What you hear is what you get.

Reply 14

Amonute

Original post by Spock's Socks

She says "why can't all guys be like you?"

Mmm, I said that to a guy I actually liked, but maybe I am just weird like that hah.

To find out whether or not you are in the friendzone,

1) Try and organise something for the two of you together. Ask her to go for a coffee in a very casual way. If she makes up excuses, does not rearrange or wants to bring in someone else, then there you have it. If you don't want to be that straightfoward, ask her to go to the library together to get some study done. Just the two of you.

or

2) See the way she texts you. Flirt a little bit without being too obvious, subtly. If she realises that you may like her and she doesn't like you back, she will probably change the subject or reply with the very much feared 'lol' 'haha' and just leave it there. Or even worse. Leave you on seen.

3) If she talks about the good looks of other guys right in front of you, chances are she probably isn't interested in you that way.

4) When you are hanging out together, whether it is with a group of friends or alone, try to establish quite a lot of eye contact with her. If she breaks the eye contact, reacts awkwardly etc, chances are you are probably friendzoned. Try to get a little bit physical. When I mean a little bit, I mean a little bit. Make up an excuse to touch her arm, for example. Maybe some hair got stuck in her earrings, ya'know. If she seems awkward or doesn't really smile, chances are she may not like you that way. Beware tho, the girl could just happen to be shy. Make sure you are comfortable with eachother before trying to get a little bit physical.

All these are subject to the kind of person she is. If she is shy, it could just seem that she isn't interested but actually be. The best thing you can do is ask her out for a coffee sometime and see what she says.

Reply 15

silverbolt

Original post by Anonymous

As the title states, what are the signs a girl sees you as just a friend?

The friendzone does not exist. It a term coined up by bitter pisswits who think they are entitled to more than they actually are.

Instead of wondering, why not just ask her out on a date?