girls, if a guy was very affectionate towards you, would it turn you off?.

Reply 40

username155270

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Original post by Vibroxitrtxi

Yes touching and kissing her all the time.

Oh you're trolling

Reply 41

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by xobeauty

Oh you're trolling

No i'm not.
I absolutely love touch and intimacy.
:smile:

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Reply 42

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by Carrot_Cake_13

Sometimes space is nice. On a side note my hands are always cold so if your hands are warm I probably wont let go :lol:

And what if I patted you all the time?.

Reply 43

Cremated_Spatula

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Original post by xobeauty

Oh you're trolling

*Checks registration date* ... :colonhash:

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 44

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by A-LJLB

To be honest it puts me off, this is why my last relationship "interest" went nowhere.

Why will it put you off?.

Reply 45

Carrot_Cake_13

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Original post by Cremated_Spatula

*Checks registration date* ... :colonhash:

Oh, good point. I'm done with this thread too.

Reply 46

user382

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Of course women like men who show affection. This is partly why people get into relationships, isn't it?

Plenty of women out there complain their husbands never show them any affection. It is important for happiness and esteem.

However, what you have described sounds a bit excessive. You sound like the sort of guy who writes long, soppy poems. No offence. :tongue:

Women value masculine qualities. They like the 'bad boys' because they are more interesting and challenging than the 'nice guys'.

There is a balance to find. Be loving but don't be too 'nice' all the time. :wink:

Reply 47

username155270

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Original post by Vibroxitrtxi

No i'm not.
I absolutely love touch and intimacy.
:smile:

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Then find someone who loves the same thing.
But I have to admit I feel claustrophobic from all the way over here.

Reply 48

username1884577

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Original post by Vibroxitrtxi

Why will it put you off?.

It just makes me feel exceptionally uncomfortable.

Reply 49

Blondie987

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Aw that's so cute :h:

Reply 50

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by xobeauty

Then find someone who loves the same thing.
But I have to admit I feel claustrophobic from all the way over here.

Claustrophobic?!?!.
How is that related?.

Reply 51

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by Blondie987

Aw that's so cute :h:

Thanks.
When i'm with a girl I love showing her love and affection.

Reply 52

username155270

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Original post by Vibroxitrtxi

Claustrophobic?!?!.
How is that related?.

Think about it

Reply 53

whorace

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Women are colder than men tbh. I'm not a macho rugby guy by any means but my best mate is, and he is really, really touchy, granted also a bit aggressive but it's generally women in my experience who say they're not fans of affection.

Reply 54

Vibroxitrtxi

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I love to cuddle and have sex kiss with the girl I am all the time :smile:

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Reply 55

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by whorace

Women are colder than men tbh. I'm not a macho rugby guy by any means but my best mate is, and he is really, really touchy, granted also a bit aggressive but it's generally women in my experience who say they're not fans of affection.

Yes you are right.
Some of them are ice womens.

Reply 56

spv

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From one man to another, you sound clingy AF and if I were the girl, I'd hate it. There's nothing wrong with being affectionate, but I had a friend who HAD to talk to his gf everyday for atleast 3 hrs before we went to sleep (we were roommates).

They're still together, but this is his fourth gf. The other 3 found him to be a little biatch because he was always there for them, and would always say I love you, and EVERY text message had 3 lines of heart, or love related emojis. (makes me sick, tbh). He didn't even know why girls didn't like him, and I had to tell him you're acting like a baby that needs constant attention from mama. He didn't even realize how annoying he was, but atleast he found this new girl, who loves 3 lines of heart emojis, and ten thousand I love you's/day.

So for your sake, tone it down, or wait for number 4. I'm sure some girls love being s̶u̶f̶f̶o̶c̶a̶t̶e̶d̶ loved.

(edited 8 years ago)

Reply 57

trustmeimlying1

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Original post by whorace

Response: Yes I love it when guys do this.
Reality: He's too soft.

So true

Original post by Vibroxitrtxi

Hi.
I am a guy who is very affectionate and I am not shy about showing my affection to the girl i'm with , I like kissing her and cuddling with her and patting her hair and body and telling her how much I love her.

I am afraid it will turn off some girls.
Because these qualities are percieved as feminine or being a "Beta" male ( a term which I hate by the way ).

The reality is that girls will look down at yeh for stupidest of things.

Yeh gotta learn to not change your behaviour for them. You'll meet the right one and if they don't like it **** em!

Reply 58

Vibroxitrtxi

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Original post by spv

From one man to another, you sound clingy AF and if I were the girl, I'd hate it. There's nothing wrong with being affectionate, but I had a friend who HAD to talk to his gf everyday for atleast 3 hrs before we went to sleep (we were roommates).

They're still together, but this is his fourth gf. The other 3 found him to be a little biatch because he was always there for them, and would always say I love you, and EVERY text message had 3 lines of heart, or love related emojis. (makes me sick, tbh). He didn't even know why girls didn't like him, and I had to tell him you're acting like a baby that needs constant attention from mama. He didn't even realize how annoying he was, but atleast he found this new girl, who loves 3 lines of heart emojis, and ten thousand I love you's/day.

So for your sake, tone it down, or wait for number 4. I'm sure some girls love being s̶u̶f̶f̶o̶c̶a̶t̶e̶d̶ loved.