Yeah, got you. Fair enough.
That's cool. Each to their own. Rough sex could involve some brusing, perhaps a touch of pain at times (obviously shouldn't be ACTUALLY painful) too...
See i'm on the fence... On the one hand, i'm like yeah a touch cringe but.... Being honest here. If some girl i fancied was semi-naked and she said 'Can you f*** me daddy?', '**** me harder daddy' or spank me etc.... 2.45 milliseconds would transpire before i became a testosterone fuelled animal and duly did what she asked.
Probably is a turn on tbh, all depends on the context.
Fair enough. I think you need real trust for that... Same with anal etc.
If you really trust him then you'd maybe relax enough to love it.
Ultimately, the girl must enjoy the intimidation/feeling of being scared a bit in order to want me to tie her up etc.
I know girls who were really inexperienced (never touched themselves, never saw the need for sex etc) say that they realised they liked being scared when with me. They liked when i took my top off and had muscle etc and wondered what i was going to do etc.
It's a fine line tbh. I'm not aggressive as a person, i hate offending anyone so i had to learn that they really wanted me to be a bit of a d*** and aggressive during sex.
See i'm not really into submissive sex but i'm game for most things. I don't mind her having control at times too