Marrying a non-Muslim doesn't seem like the best way to go. Even when you speak of love, love doesn't exist in two people's hearts unless it is willed by the Almighty.
There's a bit of a difference when it comes to marrying. Females, if they were to marry outside of the religion would have a hard time staying loyal to their faith - I am not the voice of feminism right now - but if your husband, whom you are so infatuated with, told you to choose religion or him, some would say him and the others would choose religion. Which would then lead to a divorce and the female becoming shunned when it comes to another marriage. Because females aren't thought of as much. Now remember this is culture not religion whereby a women is blamed. She would be the one who was tainted and the man would not be blamed when it comes to a divorce, making the woman's life miserable and potentially ruining her chances of a second marriage.
Furthermore, when it comes to children and religion, Men have the upper-hand. The children will most likely follow the religion of the father. The woman wouldn't have much of a say. Overall if a woman marries a non-Muslim, culture and religion collide, opinions and beliefs will overlap and there will be a lot of arguments, and the man will not seek out counsel from Allah as it is advised, or from Sunnah, the man will seek out worldly advice - worldly advice run by Satan who lives to ruin the sanctity of marriage.
Second, if a man was to marry a non-muslim women, the outcome would differ slightly. The female's parents may not agree but the woman will usually do as she wishes. Bare in mind, I am not calling females weak. I am a female myself. But most of the time the woman will follow the man if he offers a life different to the one she is currently living. The man may be able to persuade the woman to revert, but if she does she must only do so willingly for the sake of Allah. Otherwise once again, culture and religion will overlap, beliefs and religion will overlap and divorce may become the only option. Leaving the woman helpless against the world once again. In terms of children, the man once again decides the path the children will follow, the woman may disagree, leaving the man to look after the children, or that man may give the children to the woman - and she will lead them astray. The man will be to blame for not fulfilling his duty as a servant and a father.
There are many complications when it involves Muslims marrying Non-Muslims. The biggest of all is that they may revert part-time and when they don't like something they will go back to what they were before. The best advice, is to remain patient and not allow yourselves to succumb to Shaitaan.
In a more positive light, I am very very aware that there are those who have married non-Muslims and are living happily, in harmony. They have made it work, compromises and such. But if it is love, and you decided to marry a non-Muslim think about this: Wouldn't you want your partner to hold your hand in Paradise? Would you not want your partner to pray with you during the mornings of Fajr? Would you both not want to wake up together for Sehri time, visit Hajj together to perform the compulsory act?
Marrying a non-Muslim is best avoided, I do not wish to offend anyone. Unless the person was a revert before you met then you may guide them. But overall - it seems difficult and burdensome. Do not think about this life, think about how this partner will affect you in the after-life.