Or just realised that it simply isn't going to work long term?
This seems to happen with me every time I start seeing a guy. Super keen to start with, like I have no issues attracting men in the first place and maintaining them for a while, then somewhere down the line they say they've 'realised this won't work long term' etc etc it makes me feel so unlovable.
I make an effort with my appearance all the time, and although I'm not saying I'm super hot or anything, I don't think the issue is looks or they wouldn't have pursued me in the first place, right? :s
All the guys I have gone out with have said they've enjoyed dating me because I'm 'not boring' and I'm 'fun to be around' , which implies the issue isn't personality either!
I'm also evidently reasonably intelligent and hardworking, since I'm doing a law degree at a good university and have a decent job on the side.
I also have tons of friends and a life of my own.
I'm so confused and literally beat myself up about it every day. I'm too scared to start dating again as I can't take this anymore !
My last breakup was extremely painful as he had reassured me sooooooo many times that he was serious about us etc etc and then suddenly dumped me 😭 it's really stopped me from trusting guys.