He's using me for money and sex, but I don't (and do) care?

Ha well considering they just let me do what I want, they really don't care about my spending habits, no matter how unwise. They just keep putting incredibly large amounts of money in my account, everyday, with no questions. They spend their money stupidly as well, obviously not doing what I do though.

I guess I'm used to having everything physically, then get upset when there's the chance or confirmation that's not going to happen emotionally, like with this guy. You're right, he does sound like my escort, but I'm fine with that. What I'm not fine with is him texting his friend crap about me; I was happy living in the bubble until I read that. I had to know though, and the opportunity to know was there.

Can I have some money

You'd have to be hot, male, have sex with me, etc.

I can deco do the male and sex part

OP can you convince your parents to adopt me?

Maybe try and refrain from buying anything for him including paying his bills and then see if he is still interested in you. You are worth so much more than being his free cash macine. Good luck x

OP can you convince your parents to adopt me?

What do you bring to the table?

He'd still want to have sex with me without the money, but we most probably wouldn't be doing anything else without it. I'm getting what I want, but does a pretend version of being liked as a person, plus the sex, make it worth it emotionally for me? I'm trying to answer that question. It is nice to be liked for other reasons apart from looks, sex and money, but deciding whether a fake version of those other reasons is good enough for me is difficult.

I'm 16 and gay, he's 19. We've been spending a lot of time together recently, hanging out, having sex, going out, etc. He says he really likes me as a person, and wants to be around me. I have a lot of money, and I've been paying for everything for him, because that's what I like to do anyway, and of course he doesn't say no. It's not for lack of looks, as I know I'm a good-looking guy, to sound arrogant, from what others say.

Today I paid his credit card bill for him, which was approximately £1200 (that doesn't mean anything to me, so physically it doesn't matter), he thanked me a lot, we had sex and then watched a film together. After the film when he was in the shower, I looked through his phone (I'm awful, shoot me), and he sent a text to his friend saying: 'Can't believe this guy I'm seeing just paid my credit card bill man. He's hot and good in bed, and is stupid enough to just pay anything I tell him to. Better not mess this one up, lot of good stuff coming my way if I keep stringing him along, just watched this crap film to keep him happy lol.'

I don't care on one hand because I'm getting what I want, but I care because he thinks I'm stupid (which I'm not), and he's saying he actually cares about me as a person, which he clearly doesn't, so that's annoying/upsetting me. I'm unsure what to do about him at this point; do I continue or not?

I think this is the kind of person you should mind spending money on, seeing as he isn't truly grateful even if it's not a lot for you. There's plenty others out there who'd give you what he's giving you 10x better. It's better in the long run for your mentality and feelings if you break it off with him, so he learns his lesson, and find someone else.

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Thread is 4 years old.

Wait why do old threads keep popping up for me? Even ones that legit haven't been active in 4 years?