Would it be weird to ask what number a guy I met at an festival three weeks ago had?

He wanted sex with a virtual stranger, didn't offer his number, you didn't ask him or give yours. What kind of interest do you think there is, cos I'm not seeing any?

Doesn't seem like much interest from his part and tbh he probably doesn't even remember you, blunt but true. It's also crazy that you're saying you would drive 5 hours to see someone you barely know...

I really enjoyed talking to him and he was the first person I kissed, but I didn't tell him that because I found it embarrassing that I kissed for the first time at 20.

I was at an festival about three weeks ago and met an hot and funny nice guy there. We talked about music among other things. In the evening he entered my tent and we kissed and cuddled. He wanted to have sex but I didn't wanna have sex that evening. Anyway I got his friends number so that we would be able to meet up at the festival location after a band had played, neither me or the friend were interested in each other. I forgot to ask what number the guy I met had. He lived 5 hours away from me by car so it's somewhat of an distance between us, but I would drive that far to visit him if he is interested. Would it be weird to ask his friend for his number? We only met each other for two days but I really liked him. Do you think he only wanted to hook up or was he interested in me?
Is it weird because there were three weeks since the festival or because we live far away from each other?

If he was that interested in pursuing something serious with you he would have given you his number or asked for your socials. He didn't so it's unlikely he cares, I think you need to move on and stop obsessing over one random guy, find someone closer to home.

I don't care that he lives 5 hours away, if it would become serious I would be willing to move. Would it be weird or awkward if I asked his friend for his number? Maybe he thought I wasn't interested because I didn't ask for his number. Why would he sit and talk to me for several hours if he just wanted to hook up?

I don't care that he lives 5 hours away, if it would become serious I would be willing to move. Would it be weird or awkward if I asked his friend for his number? Maybe he thought I wasn't interested because I didn't ask for his number. Why would he sit and talk to me for several hours if he just wanted to hook up?

So why didn't you ask for his number? And you've probably answered your own question in that last sentence.

I guess I'm used to guys doing that so I didn't really think about it. I don't understand, what would the answer be?

He talked to you for several hours because he wanted to hook up? Those 2 actions aren't mutually exclusive.

Well maybe he only wanted to hook up, I don't know. But there is a chance he would like more. Will I embarrass my self if I ask his friend now several weeks later?