Before I start; I've made this post anonymous for a reason - so that I can be as truthful as possible to get honest feedback. I am in no way exaggerating my characteristics to get sympathy from people on the internet. This is a genuine issue for me and I'd appreciate honest feedback.
I'm a 20 year old female, currently doing a really good degree at a top Russell Group Uni (details not submitted for obvious reasons).
I've always prioritised education growing up: I worked really hard throughout my GCSES and A levels to get straight A's so that I could study at a great uni and eventually get a great job. Growing up, I was a bit of an ugly duckling so that made focusing on studying easier as I wasn't fawning over guys and makeup.
However, when I hit about 16, puberty did wonders and I became much better looking with a good body that I work hard in the gym to maintain (I'm a 'slim thick' body type).
However, I still focused on my education as I had just entered my AS levels and knew the tough road that lied ahead. I would hear from friends that some guys liked me or they found me attractive but I wasn't much interested and preferred to focus on studying.
Now, 4 years later, it's hit me that I'm 20 and I have no experience with boys. I'm still "good looking" and have the same body type but I don't get any meaningful attention from boys. I get looks from guys whilst I'm walking but they never stop to talk; I see guys checking me out but again, that's all I seem to be - eye candy.
I used to think guys were intimidated by my all rounded success but I'm not sure if thats the problem. I really thought I would have had a boyfriend by now. I don't believe in sex before marriage so I'm not worried about being a virgin but I'm just wondering - what am I doing wrong? Why am I so undateable?