Right so I just can’t get my head around this and it annoys me everytime it happens
Whenever me and my girlfriend and her family have a party at her nans house we stay over the night because she has a 3 bed room house. Me and my girlfriend have been dating 2 years and I’m good around her family and have a laugh and a joke and they genuinely like me.
But whenever we stay round her nans me and my girlfriend aren’t allowed to sleep in the same bed together. We usually go up a fair bit before everybody else and we go into the same bed together for a cuddle and to have some time together, we end up falling asleep but every time her Mum and Dad come in and wake her up and say “come on!” She then gets in bed with her nan and sleeps there.
(We have only slept together in the same bed at her nans after a party once and when she got home the next day her Mum and Dad said “that she can’t ever do that ever again!”)
We of course would never get up to anything at her nans, her Mum and Dad know me well enough that I’m not that kind of lad.
We’ve been together 2 years and slept in the same bed hundreds upon hundreds of times, gone on holiday together. We even stayed at her nans for a week in the summer house sitting.
I just can’t wrap my head around why her Mum and Dad are so against it. They know I’m not a lad that would try anything on, I respect them all loads. They know we sleep in the same bed at mine and everything.
Am I in the wrong here? It just pees me off whenever it happens because it feels like they don’t respect me whenever they tell her to get out of the bed and sleep with her nan, and also I think of like her Mum and Dad at my age if it was happening to them how would they feel. Her nan is fine with me and her sleeping in the same bed as well by the way, just Mum and Dad.
Anybody want to help me out or give me any thoughts on this, would be appreciated. I just don’t get it