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Have sex in whatever way you like, it’s fine and not a problem. Your husband might even find it arousing for you to be in charge sexually.
Original post by SherlockD
You can do pretty much anything , except for that second hole , or the mouth, as best of my knowledge. ( I’m muslim btw) The husband must pleasure the wife, as she requests as well, such that both are satisfied.


so only the husband can be on top??
Original post by Anonymous
@PlantagénetCrown let this loser tell you whats right and wrong. He hates Islam.


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Original post by Anonymous
so only the husband can be on top??


As I said you can do nearly anything . You can be on top, no problem
Original post by Plantagenet Crown
Have sex in whatever way you like, it’s fine and not a problem. Your husband might even find it arousing for you to be in charge sexually.


yeah im unsure because some say its bad if its the woman on top of the man because its emasculating?? dont understand how it could take away his manhood and we have tried it before which was enjoyable only read this it was not good after but hes my husband and i love him
Original post by Anonymous
im a 23 year old muslim female whos married and ive read that during sex with your husband the woman cant be on top of the man because its emasculating and only the man should do it
im kind of fed up because its seems like everything is either haram or frowned upon
another source confirming this is a video: 6:16-9:20

he describes it as vulgar and bad whats wrong with my husband asking me to do that im so confused???
So have sex the way you want to. It's supposed to feel good.
Original post by SherlockD
As I said you can do nearly anything . You can be on top, no problem


but you said the man should pleasure the woman?? so im unsure can i or can i not because im conflicted ive searched
Original post by Anonymous
yeah im unsure because some say its bad if its the woman on top of the man because its emasculating?? dont understand how it could take away his manhood and we have tried it before which was enjoyable only read this it was not good after but hes my husband and i love him


It doesn’t take away his manhood and he’d have to be pretty insecure to think that. Enjoy sex without restrictions.
Original post by Tootles
So have sex the way you want to. It's supposed to feel good.


yeah but im muslim and i have to follow the rules
Original post by Anonymous
yeah im unsure because some say its bad if its the woman on top of the man because its emasculating?? dont understand how it could take away his manhood and we have tried it before which was enjoyable only read this it was not good after but hes my husband and i love him


Islam is a religion of equality- the idea that a position in bed is emasculating is truly false. You are allowed to enjoy it in anyway you want except for oral ( controversial) or the back passage ( widely accepted as a no no)
Original post by SherlockD
Islam is a religion of equality- the idea that a position in bed is emasculating is truly false. You are allowed to enjoy it in anyway you want except for oral ( controversial) or the back passage ( widely accepted as a no no)


??? what

oral is haram too??? without it it hurts what i didnt know it was haram aswell?
Original post by Anonymous
but you said the man should pleasure the woman?? so im unsure can i or can i not because im conflicted ive searched


YOU PLEASURE EACH OTHER, that’s allowed. If you haven’t climaxed and he has, you have the right to demand it , as does he
Original post by Anonymous
??? what

oral is haram too??? without it it hurts what i didnt know it was haram aswell?


Oral is not forbidden.
Original post by Anonymous
??? what

oral is haram too??? without it it hurts what i didnt know it was haram aswell?


Use lube
Original post by Anonymous
yeah but im muslim and i have to follow the rules


Literally nothing happens if you don’t though....just be a good person, why live your life feeling guilty for no reason.
Original post by SherlockD
Islam is a religion of equality


You have to be joking?
OP either low IQ or a troll. Probably both.
Original post by SherlockD
Use lube


i dont always orgasm and with oral i do and my husband loves doing it i didnt know it was haram so now i have to stop doing it??
i know anal sex is haram never done that
Original post by zxcvbnm123456789
You have to be joking?


Let’s not start this debate. You win. Congratulations.

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