islam and sex

Literally nothing happens if you don’t though....just be a good person, why live your life feeling guilty for no reason.

yeah but im muslim and i have to follow the rules

You think God's going to throw you in eternal fire because you wanted to feel good when you were having sex?

OK I'm a man of faith myself (though not a Muslim), and can't see how or why any god would tell you to have sex in only one position. Sex can be done in thousands of ways and if you and your husband are comfortable having sex in any of these ways, just fricken do it. If God really gets that pissed at you for it, tell him he should have designed your sex organs to be stimulated more fully through his prescribed position.

Sex is a gift to us, I believe: to be enjoyed to its fullest without guilt (provided nobody is getting hurt). In fact, in my own faith (Christianity), we're actually told that we should fully attend to our partner's needs in bed, abstaining only for short periods of prayer (and to make it feel better when we come together again).

Which is the more loving religion now

thanks and yeah someone said above it doesnt make me a true muslim so i feel bad now

Let’s not start this debate. You win. Congratulations.

You want to ride on top. Does your husband want you do do that?

Oral is not forbidden.

we've tried it before and i like it alot so does he but the video says it emasculates the man but how?? we both like it and i dont know anymore also oral is also haram???

Dude are you okay? Oral is forbidden.

Instead of questioning why it's haram don't you question the rationality of a religion that dictates what position you can have sex in?

we've tried it before and i like it alot so does he but the video says it emasculates the man but how?? we both like it and i dont know anymore also oral is also haram???

Right sis, a woman can be on top of a man, that is no issue however difference of opinion plays a huge role here. Therefore if you are a hanafi follower thats a not allowed.

Imam Shafee(Rahimahullah) Imam Hanbal, Imam Malik all permit it.

i only found out now that this is haram i dont understand why everything is haram also i dont always orgasm during vaginal sex but i do with oral and my husband and i enjoy it?? is there any source and can you confirm

im a 23 year old muslim female whos married and ive read that during sex with your husband the woman cant be on top of the man because its emasculating and only the man should do it
im kind of fed up because its seems like everything is either haram or frowned upon
another source confirming this is a video: 6:16-9:20

he describes it as vulgar and bad whats wrong with my husband asking me to do that im so confused???

Course sis, I do not use the internet for my studies so I would not give you any websites.

However I will refer you to get a book by the name of a gift for a beloved women. It explains all in there InshaAllah.

did you watch that video i posted with the timing?? it says it emasculates the man this is untrue so im confused but thanks

oral sex is haram though? it hurts without it and i only really orgasm when my husband does oral