Girls and masturbation
It is strange for girls to masturbate to lesbian prom even though they are straight? It it weird for girls to masturbate to porn in general?
No and No.
For all genders masturbation is normal (as is not masturbating). Some adults use porn for stimulation during masturbation. So it's common, though if I'm honest not always advisable, for adults to look at pornography while masturbating for all genders.
As an aside just remember that the values in porn can be highly dubious, the sex fake and the bodies artificial. If you see it in porn it's unlikely to be representative of normal sex or relations.
The internet and internet porn's really opened the door for people to explore their sexuality. The idea that sexuality is limited or binary to a homosexual or heterosexual outlook is hugely flawed. Sexuality covers the full gambit of sexual desires and tastes - covering everything from inanimate objects, to certain body parts, fantasies, abstract things like colours and shapes, feelings, sensations, plots and traditional areas relating to gender, etc. So I find it totally normal for someone to look or fantasise at things that they have no interest in real life.
Some other scattergun points:
* Lesbian porn tends to be easier to engage with and naturally more female focussed than mainstream heterosexual porn.
* There's also associations to consider, if you associate a vagina with feeling sexual then naturally you may be stimulated by looking at vaginas. You can also relate to the feeling.
* There may also be the taboo angle, where the sexual arousal is about looking at material that is somehow taboo, eg someone who does not identify as a lesbian looking at lesbian porn.
One's sexuality fluctuates and changes over time. You are always you, so don't fence yourself in or worry about it.
For all genders masturbation is normal (as is not masturbating). Some adults use porn for stimulation during masturbation. So it's common, though if I'm honest not always advisable, for adults to look at pornography while masturbating for all genders.
As an aside just remember that the values in porn can be highly dubious, the sex fake and the bodies artificial. If you see it in porn it's unlikely to be representative of normal sex or relations.
The internet and internet porn's really opened the door for people to explore their sexuality. The idea that sexuality is limited or binary to a homosexual or heterosexual outlook is hugely flawed. Sexuality covers the full gambit of sexual desires and tastes - covering everything from inanimate objects, to certain body parts, fantasies, abstract things like colours and shapes, feelings, sensations, plots and traditional areas relating to gender, etc. So I find it totally normal for someone to look or fantasise at things that they have no interest in real life.
Some other scattergun points:
* Lesbian porn tends to be easier to engage with and naturally more female focussed than mainstream heterosexual porn.
* There's also associations to consider, if you associate a vagina with feeling sexual then naturally you may be stimulated by looking at vaginas. You can also relate to the feeling.
* There may also be the taboo angle, where the sexual arousal is about looking at material that is somehow taboo, eg someone who does not identify as a lesbian looking at lesbian porn.
One's sexuality fluctuates and changes over time. You are always you, so don't fence yourself in or worry about it.
(edited 5 years ago)
Original post by JTfoxlove
No and No.
For all genders masturbation is normal (as is not masturbating). Some adults use porn for stimulation during masturbation. So it's common, though if I'm honest not always advisable, for adults to look at pornography while masturbating for both genders.
As an aside just remember that the values in porn can be highly dubious, the sex fake and the bodies artificial. If you see it in porn it's unlikely to be representative of normal sex or relations.
The internet and internet porn's really opened the door for people to explore their sexuality. The idea that sexuality is limited or binary to a homosexual or heterosexual outlook is hugely flawed. Sexuality covers the full gambit of sexual desires and tastes - covering everything from inanimate objects, to certain body parts, fantasies, abstract things like colours and shapes, feelings, sensations, plots and traditional areas relating to gender, etc. So I find it totally normal for someone to look or fantasise at things that they have no interest in real life.
Some other scattergun points:
* Lesbian porn tends to be easier to engage with and naturally more female focussed than mainstream heterosexual porn.
* There's also associations to consider, if you associate a vagina with feeling sexual then naturally you may be stimulated by looking at vaginas. You can also relate to the feeling.
* There may also be the taboo angle, where the sexual arousal is about looking at material that is somehow taboo, eg someone who does not identify as a lesbian looking at lesbian porn.
One's sexuality fluctuates and changes over time. You are always you, so don't fence yourself in or worry about it.
For all genders masturbation is normal (as is not masturbating). Some adults use porn for stimulation during masturbation. So it's common, though if I'm honest not always advisable, for adults to look at pornography while masturbating for both genders.
As an aside just remember that the values in porn can be highly dubious, the sex fake and the bodies artificial. If you see it in porn it's unlikely to be representative of normal sex or relations.
The internet and internet porn's really opened the door for people to explore their sexuality. The idea that sexuality is limited or binary to a homosexual or heterosexual outlook is hugely flawed. Sexuality covers the full gambit of sexual desires and tastes - covering everything from inanimate objects, to certain body parts, fantasies, abstract things like colours and shapes, feelings, sensations, plots and traditional areas relating to gender, etc. So I find it totally normal for someone to look or fantasise at things that they have no interest in real life.
Some other scattergun points:
* Lesbian porn tends to be easier to engage with and naturally more female focussed than mainstream heterosexual porn.
* There's also associations to consider, if you associate a vagina with feeling sexual then naturally you may be stimulated by looking at vaginas. You can also relate to the feeling.
* There may also be the taboo angle, where the sexual arousal is about looking at material that is somehow taboo, eg someone who does not identify as a lesbian looking at lesbian porn.
One's sexuality fluctuates and changes over time. You are always you, so don't fence yourself in or worry about it.
Omg wow, thank you for this. It makes sense actually. My parents are Christian and they found porn on my phone when I was younger and said it was bad. But when I started liking lesbian porn I thought that was bad. That I was “becoming a lesbian”?? There’s nothing wrong with that but I was pretty sure I was straight.
Original post by Anonymous
It is strange for girls to masturbate to lesbian prom even though they are straight? It it weird for girls to masturbate to porn in general?
Girls vary so much. Lots of different things turn girls on. Nothing is abnormal.
I agree nothing is abnormal.
For me a good large dildo usually does the trick.
For me a good large dildo usually does the trick.
I'm somewhere between straight and bi on the sexuality spectrum and I, without a doubt, enjoy watching lesbian porn much more than straight porn. Pleasuring yourself to lesbian porn is quite normal because it's almost much more relatable at the time.
I mean, @JTfoxlove explained it really well. So, yeah!
I mean, @JTfoxlove explained it really well. So, yeah!
Original post by meharkaursandhu
I'm somewhere between straight and bi on the sexuality spectrum and I, without a doubt, enjoy watching lesbian porn much more than straight porn. Pleasuring yourself to lesbian porn is quite normal because it's almost much more relatable at the time.
I mean, @JTfoxlove explained it really well. So, yeah!
I mean, @JTfoxlove explained it really well. So, yeah!
Yes. And,by the way, lots of straight guys like watching lesbian sex. They can learn a lot from 2 women who are making love to each other!
yeah, I'm a straight dude and I prefer lesbian porn over straight porn. (I know this was 3 years ago)
Just remember most porn has extremities. Doesnt matter what gender it is or how many partners , straight, gay or lesbian etc. As people watch more and more its possible that some people will become desensitised to what is considered safe or normal than when first they began looking at porn. There is a dark side to porn so just be cautious.
As a general guide, I would recommend avoiding anything that contains violence or control over another person or anything illegal like underage stuff. In porn, there are video photographers present in the room (unless its a webcam), so the sex may not represent how porn actors really feel about each other. Especially if they get paid for it.
As a general guide, I would recommend avoiding anything that contains violence or control over another person or anything illegal like underage stuff. In porn, there are video photographers present in the room (unless its a webcam), so the sex may not represent how porn actors really feel about each other. Especially if they get paid for it.
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