I've posted this on r/UniUK as well, but I wanted to hear your thoughts.
I (19M, 1st year) recently transferred from a uni in southern England to a uni in the East Midlands. My first uni was a small campus uni in a small city (~45,000 people), and my new one is a larger city centre uni in a much larger city (~350,000 people). So far, I've found the transition to be the most difficult thing I've ever gone through.
I'm autistic, so I like routine and I'm not the most outgoing person. I have real difficulty adjusting to change as well. So naturally, going from my home in a small town to uni in a city was a bit of a jump, and it threw me. But that's just the beginning.
Although my flatmates were all lovely and my course was okay, I found a few things quite difficult. I found myself to be bored quite often because I wasn't interested in partying, and the city didn't really have anything that interested me. I found the modules on my course to be quite boring too. Also, my girlfriend and I went from living a mile apart to 150 miles apart when she moved to her uni. This made things even worse.
I soon made the decision to transfer up to the Midlands. I guess I thought that I'd prefer living in a big city, on a bigger campus, with a better course and a much more interesting life. Plus, I'd be closer to my girlfriend. God was I wrong.
I'm now three weeks into life at my new uni and things have got worse, not better:
I prefer some of the modules on my course but I feel that my choice of course will be useless when looking for grad jobs
I'm really struggling to make friends outside my flat, and I feel completely alone. I've attended a few societies a couple times, but haven't had much luck
Whereas I had two potential part-time jobs lined up at my first uni, I now keep getting rejected by every place I apply to
I need counselling and careers advice, but all the appointments with the uni are booked up and the on-site surgery are oversubscribed
My new uni doesn't have the best reputation, so I fear I've jeopardised my uni experience and my future job prospects
There's another local campus-based uni (which is rated extremely highly) that I've visited frequently - I really wish I'd applied there now, as I would've certainly made friends earlier, been more employable, received the right support and enjoyed my experience more
Overall I just think I made the wrong call and don't know what to do. There have been times where I've considered dropping out or deferring, but I don't think those options are realistic.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.
TL;DR: transferred unis a couple weeks in, as I wasn't happy at my first uni. My new uni may actually be worse in some respects and I'm not sure what to do.