First, let me clear this up: the breaking of the hymen DOES NOT mean you have lost your virginity. Virginity is a concept. You can break your hymen from riding a bike, running, doing sports etc. If breaking the hymen was the standard of losing your virginity, girls as young as 5 would ‘lose their virginity.’ Secondly, there shouldn’t always be blood, if there’s too much then it’s bad and you should get help. Thirdly, no, a dildo does not take your virginity. It is something that happens when you have sex for the first time, whatever sex is for you. For a straight couple, it can be penis in vagina, for lgbtq+ couples it’s different but valid all the same. So no, you haven’t lost your virginity.