Should I wait for a boy?

When I wait, no boys approach me but when I do try and start a convo ( because people have said boys might be intimidated by me) they’re just so blunt and show no interest. So I MUST be ugly. I’m trying to come to terms with it but now I just want to make myself look like Kim K

When I wait, no boys approach me but when I do try and start a convo ( because people have said boys might be intimidated by me) they’re just so blunt and show no interest. So I MUST be ugly. I’m trying to come to terms with it but now I just want to make myself look like Kim K

I’m trying to come to terms with it but now I just want to make myself look like Kim K

Stop trying too hard, focus on yourself and with any luck, someone will come along.

The important part is being social and expanding your social circle

You sound like a teenager. Is it possible you have a resting b***h face? It can be off putting to approach someone like that. Also what type of guys are you approaching?

Thank you but I pretty do have everything else in my life sorted, ive just ‘ graduated’ .... have a job which I’m so grateful to have during the pandemic and I have lovely friends although they live all over the place because we’ve finished uni and I don’t have many friends at home. How can I make new ones where I live??

You seem to be in a great position for a relationship, I think you should just focus on enjoying your life, going out with friends whenever you can and, treating yourself every once and a while etc.

You could join a sports club or any extracurricular activity, a lot of classes done there could forge new friendships.

Thank you! Yes I’ve recently joined the gym but the boys there can be quite intimidating and I struggle to start conversations in scenarios like that but maybe when I’m there more I might see a regular face

No I’m 21. How do I sound like a teenager? No I don’t have a resting ***** face, but if I am surrounded by good looking boys say in the gym I do get anxious so idk what my facial expression is like then. Just average- good looking boys. Not Zac Efron type people just smart, normal boys I suppose.