I think I might becoming an incel idk what to do?

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Original post by jovknerd77

whats the first thing you say to a girl

I use to get matches but I don’t anymore nothing works they just flake or waste time sucks I’ll be single and alone forever

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Original post by Makalitu

I use to get matches but I don’t anymore nothing works they just flake or waste time sucks I’ll be single and alone forever

this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build

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Original post by Anonymous

this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build

I don’t care what women owe or don’t owe man I made a thread pretending to be a woman complaining about men so don’t give me that rubbish

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Original post by Makalitu

I don’t care what women owe or don’t owe man I made a thread pretending to be a woman complaining about men so don’t give me that rubbish

pardon?

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Anonymous #2

do u go to school, uni, college or anything? or do u like work a job? from my experience those are the best places to build your confidence by practising flirting / talking to girls (i know that sounds kinda bad but its true). would you say youre not confident? are you not confident of the way you look or is it a more mental thing?

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Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

this gives me the male pick me attitude :// girls get rejected too the same way you have, i got rejected for so long. literally just be patient, no one owes you a romantic relationship and they take time to build

its easier for a man to be rejected than a girl to be rejected

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Original post by Anonymous

its easier for a man to be rejected than a girl to be rejected

can you elaborate? it wasn’t about ease of rejection - more so that everyone gets rejected all the time, and moaning about it doesn’t fix ur problems and makes you less attractive

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Original post by Anonymous

do u go to school, uni, college or anything? or do u like work a job? from my experience those are the best places to build your confidence by practising flirting / talking to girls (i know that sounds kinda bad but its true). would you say youre not confident? are you not confident of the way you look or is it a more mental thing?

Nooo I don’t

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Original post by Anonymous

can you elaborate? it wasn’t about ease of rejection - more so that everyone gets rejected all the time, and moaning about it doesn’t fix ur problems and makes you less attractive

Neither does anything else I’ve tried man

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Anonymous #3

Original post by Makalitu

Nooo I don’t

Sounds like you need to get out more...after this pandemic calms down

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Original post by Makalitu

Neither does anything else I’ve tried man

dude, just take ur time and lower ur expectations. relationships happen when u least expect it from my experience

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Original post by Anonymous

dude, just take ur time and lower ur expectations. relationships happen when u least expect it from my experience

They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao

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Original post by Makalitu

They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao

it doesnt matter about your age and how many gfs youve had. thats irrelevant. its most likely your attitude or the way you come across because you seem to be turning down all our suggestions and saying nothing ever works. if youre not willing to try then why did you make a thread?

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Original post by BluMoon06

it doesnt matter about your age and how many gfs youve had. thats irrelevant. its most likely your attitude or the way you come across because you seem to be turning down all our suggestions and saying nothing ever works. if youre not willing to try then why did you make a thread?

No attitude don’t cause good or bad things to happen attitude depends of your life experiences

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Original post by Makalitu

They don’t I’ve been single all my life and I’m 23 think about that not one girlfriend lmao lmao

there’s no rush to be in a relationship, it’s fine to be 23 and never have been in a relationship

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Original post by Anonymous

there’s no rush to be in a relationship, it’s fine to be 23 and never have been in a relationship

I’m 23 and a loner

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