My Best Mate Has changed

Original post by CaptainDuckie

Why you tagging :lol:

So it’s not you making these threads then?

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Original post by Anonymous

So ive invited my best mate a long time ago to my bbq and i just reminded him today for him to say me and my gf are going to the pub the day before fair eenough but hes making excuses like oh well be hung over or i dont wanna be around a lot of people yet now hes going to a protest the day of my bbq his gf is controlling and not nice at all

It sounds like he’s concerned about the covid restrictions easing. Just try and be chill around him, maybe invite him and just one or two others around to start with?

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OP

Original post by A1exei

It sounds like he’s concerned about the covid restrictions easing. Just try and be chill around him, maybe invite him and just one or two others around to start with?

but hes going to a protest and the pub??

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dnielslfj

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Original post by CaptainDuckie

Yes, that is true.

since you are so helpful help me with my English homework :smile:

Reply 11

Original post by Anonymous

but hes going to a protest and the pub??

Yeah that’s weird, I don’t know but I’ve found a lot of people have changed during lockdown. Could you maybe invite him without his gf if she’s controlling?

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Anonymous #3

Original post by A1exei

It sounds like he’s concerned about the covid restrictions easing. Just try and be chill around him, maybe invite him and just one or two others around to start with?

Troll

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Original post by Anonymous

Troll

Can you stop ? I know who you are

Reply 14

OP

Original post by A1exei

Yeah that’s weird, I don’t know but I’ve found a lot of people have changed during lockdown. Could you maybe invite him without his gf if she’s controlling?

we try to, but she has to be with him all the time like she accused him of cheating once after going to superdrug

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Original post by Anonymous

we try to, but she has to be with him all the time like she accused him of cheating once after going to superdrug

Ah she sounds like a control freak/clingy then. Maybe a lads trip? It’s unlikely that he’d respond well if you said she’s controlling though it’s temping, I’ve been there and done that lol

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OP

Original post by A1exei

Ah she sounds like a control freak/clingy then. Maybe a lads trip? It’s unlikely that he’d respond well if you said she’s controlling though it’s temping, I’ve been there and done that lol

idk how to approach it tbh

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chlamydia9000

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Lockdown probably caused you to drift apart (for him at least). Maybe he fears the awkwardness of the convo at the BBQ after atrophying social skills. Maybe it is his gf. I'd try one more time in a few weeks, and if he isn't receptive then leave it.

(edited 3 years ago)

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Original post by Anonymous

idk how to approach it tbh

I agree with the above user

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