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Do I message her?

Hi everyone,
On Friday, me and a girl arranged to meet up on Tuesday. We confirmed the location as well as roughly the time (3-5pm). She said she would later confirm the exact time but I've yet to hear from her.

[Probably irrelevant context- I've asked her out to my school's prom and she said yes].

Now, do I message her to confirm the exact time? I'm worried about seeming needy, because so far I've always initiated a conversation by text (nevertheless, when we talk everything is very good).

Thanks
Yeah it seems sensible to bring it up today. (or at least I would)
(edited 2 years ago)
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Original post by _gcx
Yeah it seems sensible to bring it up today. (or at least I would)

Thanks. But since she said she will confirm the exact date, wouldn't it be better to wait for her?
Reply 3
Yes. Just send her a casual message and ask if she's still okay for you two meeting and if she has a more specific time that's best for her. Take it from there.
wait for her and if she doesn't get back to you by wednesday/thursday then drop her a message or just ask now, it'll be fine dw.
Original post by Anonymous
Thanks. But since she said she will confirm the exact date, wouldn't it be better to wait for her?

I don't think a gentle reminder/asking if they're still up for it would hurt.

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