hi guys
i just wanted to ask for a quick second opinion;
i’m not too bothered if someone forgets to call me, however this is the situation.
3 days ago my boyfriend called me, he ended up falling asleep on call midway through me telling him about the trip i went on that he asked to know about. i wasn’t too upset, because it’s not a huge deal. i asked him if i bored him as a joke and he said no and seemed genuinely sorry (i was just joking luckily!). he told me he’d call me the day after.
he didn’t, i was a bit upset but more in a meh maybe another day kind of way.
the day after he called me after he’d been drinking but was sober, and apologised a lot for not calling me. i told him it was no biggie, and it was okay. he told me he’d want to call me the next day as we’re long distance and he wants to speak to me more, and he told me he missed me alot and even cried a bit as we’re so far apart distance wise for the summer.
however he never called me today, and ive stayed up until 1am just in case he forgot and wanted to call later. i think he went to a pub today and probably forgot, but i feel abit weird that he forgot again despite being so adamant on calling me again.
i really don’t mind him not calling me, he isn’t mandated to do so haha! i just feel a bit off staying up for hours, (i didn’t clear my day out for him, but I did decline my friends’ zoom call for another day) and it’s happened again. he felt really bad the other day when he didn’t call me and i wasn’t mad at all, so i feel a bit bad if i bring it up and he feels guilty as I don’t want him to feel pressured to call - but i can’t help but feel a bit off??
do you guys think i should not think much of it, play the silent game for a day, or let him know i feel a bit off but it’s okay - i don’t want to be dramatic about it :-) thanks!