Muslim Relationships

Dr_wannabe_

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This ones for my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters? How do you deal with crushes?

what do you mean?

I don't get them anymore.

Reply 3

TriplexA

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Original post by Dr_wannabe_

This ones for my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters? How do you deal with crushes?

Salam.

I focus on my career and tell myself relationships at such a young age are a waste of time.
Also are you an aspiring medic?

Reply 4

Dr_wannabe_

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Original post by TriplexA

Salam.

I focus on my career and tell myself relationships at such a young age are a waste of time.
Also are you an aspiring medic?

I do want to become a doctor, however, I don't think love is a waste of time. Atm I am in love and I think I might have found someone who could potentially be my future husband

Reply 5

Dr_wannabe_

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Original post by summerbirdreads

I don't get them anymore.

Cool I guess

Original post by TriplexA

Salam.

I focus on my career and tell myself relationships at such a young age are a waste of time.
Also are you an aspiring medic?

Also W Salam

Drop here!

I'm not muslim but

Oh nice. It depends on the person and ultimately its your choice to move forward with him or not.
I'd just say that please don't sacrifice too much of your time towards the relationship as you don't want to ruin your chance at getting into uni.
A levels require a lot of dedication and for medicine you need very high grades as a minimum - just a heads up.

Reply 8

username5865886

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Original post by hungrysalamander

I'm not muslim but

omg i died ..the spiderman :rofl:

Reply 9

username5865886

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Original post by Dr_wannabe_

This ones for my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters? How do you deal with crushes?

I have them and just don't ever tell them :lol:

maybe in uni if i find the right guy i might and see if he's willing to be with me

Reply 10

username5706823

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Original post by hungrysalamander

I'm not muslim but

Wtf did I just watch??

Reply 11

username5794123

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Original post by Dr_wannabe_

This ones for my fellow Muslim brothers and sisters? How do you deal with crushes?

Why is this question only exclusive to Muslims? I mean, how would they have a different experience to non-Muslims, aside from the usual subjectivity that is present in everyone?

Reply 12

username5319484

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Original post by summerbirdreads

Wtf did I just watch??

My sense of humour is weird

Reply 13

username5865886

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Original post by summerbirdreads

Wtf did I just watch??

PRSOM

Reply 14

username5706823

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Original post by hungrysalamander

My sense of humour is weird

Thanks for reminding me I'm haram though.

Reply 15

Dr_wannabe_

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Original post by 0ptics

Why is this question only exclusive to Muslims? I mean, how would they have a different experience to non-Muslims, aside from the usual subjectivity that is present in everyone?

In Islam we don't date, we only marry, so if you're Muslim it's much harder to cope with a crush as you can't really do anything, especially since you're younger. I'm not a scholar so please research as to why we only marry.

Reply 16

Dr_wannabe_

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Original post by TriplexA

Oh nice. It depends on the person and ultimately its your choice to move forward with him or not.
I'd just say that please don't sacrifice too much of your time towards the relationship as you don't want to ruin your chance at getting into uni.
A levels require a lot of dedication and for medicine you need very high grades as a minimum - just a heads up.

This is v true and my education is v important. I think my love life motivates me to do well as I want my future children and partner to live a nice life, which of course a good job will provide. Anyway, becoming a doctor is probably my biggest dream.

Reply 17

Slx.24

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Original post by summerbirdreads

Thanks for reminding me I'm haram though.

Wait you're a muslim? 😭😭 I didn't even know

Reply 18

username5794123

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Original post by Dr_wannabe_

In Islam we don't date, we only marry, so if you're Muslim it's much harder to cope with a crush as you can't really do anything, especially since you're younger. I'm not a scholar so please research as to why we only marry.