I have always got mixed info about when guys usually start feeling comfortable enough and know enough about how the world works, that they can actually get out there and get themselves into a relationship. I remember back in school guys were already getting into relationships at around 14-15, and by around 17 it was already the norm. While no one really understood why I said that I felt that only at around 17 or later I will start looking out for one myself. I know that everyone is different and feels ready at a different time, and also learns how to get into a relationship at a different time, but I'm starting to feel that I'm still nowhere near the point, even though I'm 21 already.So I'm not asking when did you get into your first relationship, but rather when do you think you were mature enough to know how to do it and be in a happy, healthy productive long-term relationship with someone? When do you feel you've learnt everything you had to about the world to know how to find someone, get to know them, ask them out, etc. Honestly, I wouldn't even know where to start looking for a girlfriend. And while I do know that there are people even older than me who haven't been in relationships, I've always wondered how much that is by choice, and how much it's because they're as incompetent as I am at knowing what to do in such social situations. So when and how did you learn how to do it you felt mature enough to trust yourself to do it correctly?Alternatively, do you feel like your first relationship came up before you knew what you were doing? If so, how did that happen and how did it go?