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    (Original post by WBZ144)
    It's dangerous for a person who has just recovered from an eating disorder to be fasting for long hours, this isn't good advice for the OP.

    Also, it doesn't reduce them, at least not for women. And yes, I have fasted before, including during the ridiculously long summer hours.
    Personally it did help me but sorry if you say so
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    (Original post by Abby_7)
    Really ? how long have yu fasted for ? what was the purpose of your fast?
    spent a month in Iran couple of years ago, and it was Ramadan, so I joined in

    much less pleasurable than sex, believe me
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    (Original post by mariachi)
    spent a month in Iran couple of years ago, and it was Ramadan, so I joined in

    much less pleasurable than sex, believe me
    I never said it's pleasurable like sex... but it reduces levels of sexual desire.. and as muslims you would understand this better because when we fast we have to follow throgh some regulations which make it alot easier for us.. and believe me it makes it alot easier when you fast because on a spiritual level you connect with Allah and it reduces you chance of desires and lust
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    Run away with a sex-eskimo and start a family of igloo pups :hoppy:

    Seriously, so long as you're comfortable with the religious/cultural ramifications, I suggest you find some release
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    (Original post by Abby_7)
    I never said it's pleasurable like sex...
    and you are totally right : It's a mistery for me how fasting could ever be suggested as a valid substitute for sex

    it simply doesn't compare
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    (Original post by Abby_7)
    I never said it's pleasurable like sex... but it reduces levels of sexual desire.. and as muslims you would understand this better because when we fast we have to follow throgh some regulations which make it alot easier for us.. and believe me it makes it alot easier when you fast because on a spiritual level you connect with Allahand it reduces you chance of desires and lust
    Allah has Wi-Fi now. You can't stop progress.
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    (Original post by ripjonsnow)
    Most people shouldnt follow the teachings of a hippy who was born 2000 years ago.
    You know? That religion where today people are burned alive for not believing in it?

    Im not talking about islam, im talking about Christianity.
    Don't worry, I'm an atheist Theravadin not a Christian.

    To be fair though, the old testament is the messed up bit. That hippy did a decent job of turning it around in part 2. It's just a shame that people didn't follow his example.
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Allah has Wi-Fi now. You can't stop progress.
    Theres no such thing as wifi with Allah.
    Even if your on a desert land you'll still connect.. Its not called Wifi its called faith!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It was never this high even in my teens, and disappeared almost completely when I became anaemic, but recently it's shot up. Damn you iron tablets! I do 'relieve myself' but it's not always enough. (I'm a virgin btw). Maybe it's just exam stress idk, but it's making it difficult to concentrate when trying to revise
    Masturbate
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    (Original post by Abby_7)
    Theres no such thing as wifi with Allah.
    Even if your on a desert land you'll still connect.. Its not called Wifi its called faith!
    Faith is a kind of universal wi-fi then.
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    People you seem to be missing the point here. The OP's recovering from an eating disorder. Fasting is therefore out of the question, it'll just deteriorate her health. It does say that those who unable to fast are exempt from doing so. This is one of those times.

    I'm sure there's another way recommended in Islam, though fasting is the only one I've come across so far.
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Allah has Wi-Fi now. You can't stop progress.
    :rofl:
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    I remembered after losing my virginity to the wrong girl that I swore never to masturbate again until marriage.

    Boy, did that fail.
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    (Original post by Serine Soul)
    :lolwut:

    Please don't use your hairbrush up there OP, you'll probably get an infection
    Or a deodorant can! The mental image of someone having it off with a can of Right Guard made my bum shut! Proper cringe and sounds painful (and I've plopped a 9lb baby out of my chuff!)
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    If you can do so without being caught by family I would recommend getting a vibrator, even a bullet should help, if it's really bad, do anal as well, start with a small buttplug and plenty of water based lube, and use a condom. Remember, water based, oil based will degrade the condom and sometimes the toy depending on material.
 
 
 
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