This is really annoying me!

Why can't an 18 year old pull someone his own age? 15 is way too immature for an 18 year old.

Plus the 18 year old is meant to be a right minger, so no wonder he is sticking around.

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Right, my best mate is 15 and she has recently started seeing an 18 year old. Her mum found out and totally went mental and grounded my mate and everything, she now is banned from seeing this lad, now surely any 18 year old would sense there is going to be fireworks and make a quick exit? But he has decided to stay around, and instead of going out on the pull.. he now spends night after night talking to her and comforting her as she cries her eyes out. Personally, I think he is silly for doing so.

She is now going to talk to her parents about it again and hope that she lets her see him, and if they dont then she said she will die of a broken heart, she is just being stupid and I cant talk to her without losing my temper, I have said why doesnt she meet him in secret, but she said no, surely if she loved him she would do whatever she could to be with him, am I right?

She said that they are texting each other every minute of everyday, and that means they are in love? She needs to look at it like this, if I was 18 and I seen a 15 year old I liked, if he parents told her she couldnt see me, I would pull out before things got serious and then we would both get over it after a while, but instead she cries herself to sleep and tries to cling onto something which clearly isnt there. Plus the 18 year old is meant to be a right minger, so no wonder he is sticking around, they havent even met each other face to face apart from one time a few weeks ago, and they have fallen in love, is this a match made in heaven? I dont think so..

Well when you care for someone you want to do all you can to make them happy, and I dont want to just ''leave'' my best mate to cry herself to sleep. I dont look for looks above anything else, I said ''the lad is meant to be a right minger'' because that is what a few of the other girls have told me. Which is probably why he cant find someone his own age, can I ask you all a question.. when you were 18 or when you reach 18, would you rather have a few one night stands, a few relationships with someone your own age w/ sex or would you rather sit in on the computer and talk to an obsessed 15 year old? I think I know what my answer would be.

one of my best friends had a similar situation.she was 14 and he was 18 or 19...anyways they did meet first so it isn't as if she blindly went into it..but still..she kept it a secret from her parents and some of our friends as well...i didn't like it...but what could i say? anyway her parents did find out and all hell broke lose! she kept talking to him and all in secret but after awhile broke it off...i guess she realised her parents trust is more important and it was too stressfull to keep up the secrecy... anyway it blew off eventually, although she still considers him a pretty great guy..although he started going out with another girl shortly after and we found out had dated quite a few 14yr olds in a nother school...