This is probably going to come across as an incoherent rant but I want an outsiders opinion on this please
I feel like I do everything for my boyfriend and don't get back anything in return, he doesn't even seem to appreciate it most of the time.
When I met him he was working in a supermarket, on drugs, no real aspirations. He dropped out of sixth form without A Levels even though he was academically capable and he said he since regretted it.
He told me he was unhappy with his lifestyle but didn't think he could do anything about it.
In the time we've been together he also lost his full time job, struggled finding another and ran up large debts.
I have always tried to be as supportive as I could, looked for jobs for him, helped him fill out debt forms, and gave him loads of help when he decided to do an access to he course at college.
I just feel like he doesnt really appreciate it. He tells me I'm nagging frequently even if I ask how his college is going and it annoys me after all this that he still doesn't really have the motivation to do anything. For example he would play on internet games all day long instead of doing something more proactive like working to pay off his debt or doing college work.
I don't know maybe I'm over reacting. Just gets to me when I always try my best to help him and make him happy