This girl...

well i'm not gonna say "why dont you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?" cos that would be creepy but you should definitely give it a shot and if she says she'd rather just be friends then chuckle and dont make it awkward just be like "well it was worth a try :smile:

" and all will be fine, you'll still have your friend....you sound sweet so i hope it goes well :smile:

sad faces for the negs...just cos i broke the trend :tongue:

combo breaker.

Reply 41

stephie.u3

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Original post by Glen_Nichols

****ing bitch ruined it

wow abuse but hey deal with it :biggrin:

Reply 42

stephie.u3

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Original post by skibur

combo breaker.

love how much of a big deal its turning into :tongue:

least i'm not a sheep :biggrin:

Reply 43

EmmaJayne.x

JUST BLOODY ASK HER IF SHE WANTS TO GO OUT SOMETIME.

/late

Reply 44

DLJ

13

Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?

Reply 45

Boo!xx

9

Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?
:tongue:

Reply 46

It could be lupus

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Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?

Reply 47

Anonymous #1

OP

You're the worst people ever :frown:

:P

Reply 48

JL.

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Ask her out. If she rejects you then at least you know that you've tried your best.

Reply 49

pixxie

2

Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?
^ definitely. If you don't, then you will regret it, even if she turns you down. But if you never ask, then you'll never know! :P x

Reply 50

Betacra

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Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime purple monkey dishwasher?

Reply 51

emzaz

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Original post by Anonymous

Right there's this I know who's really great - she's really really pretty, smart and funny. I talk to her a lot like on facebook/text and spend like 2 hours a week with her for Duke of Edinburgh. She's in the year below me (I'm in year 12) and so I don't see her LOADS (because of the separation of 6th form and the rest of the school at my school). I really like her and would want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if she likes me back.

If you're talking about my little sister, I'll kill you :biggrin:

(I only mention this because she used to fancy a guy in the year above her who she did D of E with and she's in year 11 and he's in the 6th form so the similarities are remarkable hahah! )

However, (to be on topic and hopefully vaguely useful) personally it seems like she currently doesn't think of you as a potential boyfriend - mainly as a friend. Also, some girls in year 11 just aren't ready for a relationship - I know I wasn't too interested when I was that age. Saying that, if you want things to progress you should maybe try suggesting that you meet up sometime i.e. basically ask her on a date, because otherwise you'll just be left in limbo not knowing one way or the other! Finally, I wouldn't over-compliment her on photographs as some girls (myself included) sometimes don't like every single photo of themselves or may get embarassed (or even annoyed) if people suggest otherwise.

(sorry for the essay.... but seriously, if you live in the north of england then be warned :tongue:

Hahehehee! )

Reply 52

*Dreaming*

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Original post by sil3nt_cha0s

Why don't you try asking her if she wants to go out sometime?

Lol, why are you going round copying everything I say?

Reply 53

Anonymous #1

OP

Original post by emzaz

If you're talking about my little sister, I'll kill you :biggrin:

(I only mention this because she used to fancy a guy in the year above her who she did D of E with and she's in year 11 and he's in the 6th form so the similarities are remarkable hahah! )

However, (to be on topic and hopefully vaguely useful) personally it seems like she currently doesn't think of you as a potential boyfriend - mainly as a friend. Also, some girls in year 11 just aren't ready for a relationship - I know I wasn't too interested when I was that age. Saying that, if you want things to progress you should maybe try suggesting that you meet up sometime i.e. basically ask her on a date, because otherwise you'll just be left in limbo not knowing one way or the other! Finally, I wouldn't over-compliment her on photographs as some girls (myself included) sometimes don't like every single photo of themselves or may get embarassed (or even annoyed) if people suggest otherwise.

(sorry for the essay.... but seriously, if you live in the north of england then be warned :tongue:

Hahehehee! )

Haha that's weird, and I do live in the north of england :colondollar:

But I'm 99.999% sure she doesn't have an older sister! :P

And yeah I understand your points. I'm not stupid with things like compliments, I know limits and boundaries, I've complimented her on photos maybe 2 times, thrice at maximum. I think I'm just going to go what you said, ask her out somewhere that's not me being too pushy - just to hang out. I really get confused with her. Sometimes I think she'd not like me in that way at all but then comes out with things like 'Aww you're the sweetest guy ever'.

I know a friend can be 'sweet' but why would a girl want to go out with anyone but the 'sweetest guy ever'. You girls are too confusing with your signals. :frown:

Overall, thanks for the advice!

Reply 54

skibur

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Original post by stephie.u3

love how much of a big deal its turning into :tongue:

least i'm not a sheep :biggrin:

ahaha im not having a go at you :P i just really wanted to say COMBOBREAKER but tsr turned it into small case :frown:

Reply 55

Betacra

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Original post by Anonymous

I think I'm just going to go what you said, ask her out somewhere that's not me being too pushy - just to hang out.

Awesome! Remember to report back here and tell us sad people how it went!

Reply 56

lilyrawstorne

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Original post by Billo007

WDYTAHISWTGOS

It's now an anagram.

*acronym (sorry I couldn't resist)

Reply 57

OBAG09L

8

Why not ask if she wants licking out some time?

Reply 58

OKAYAWESOME.

This is everyones way of saying, Just go for it! i know its a really embaressing thing to do, but you may as well do it, or you'll always wonder. If she says no, then atleast you'll know :smile:

Reply 59

stephie.u3

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Original post by skibur