Buying Girls Drinks
OK so your out one night and a girl asks you to buy her a drink you have just met her . How do you know if she likes you or just trying to get a free drink from you?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
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Original post by youshallnotpass
OK so your out one night and a girl asks you to buy her a drink you have just met her . How do you know if she likes you or just trying to get a free drink from you?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
When girl ask me to buy them drink I tell them to buy me one first, if they will then they deserve my time, if not then she's not worth me spending money on her.
i have never asked a guy to buy me drink
i think it's disgusting
you might as well just ask him for cash
its just rude
if i were a guy id refuse point blank
if a guy was to offer id only accept if interested (possibly i still might not accept)
but if i were you id just say no n not offer until your sure she likes you because half of the girls out there will just want free drinks
i think it's disgusting
you might as well just ask him for cash
its just rude
if i were a guy id refuse point blank
if a guy was to offer id only accept if interested (possibly i still might not accept)
but if i were you id just say no n not offer until your sure she likes you because half of the girls out there will just want free drinks
I don't know any girl who actually asks for drinks! That's just rude. If a guy offers me a drink and I like him then sometimes I say yes. I do like it when a guy offers, because I'm a sucker for the traditional gentleman, and if we want another drink later on then I'll pay for it. I would never expect a guy to buy all my drinks but I do appreciate the initial offer.
Once I bought one of my male friends a drink when we were out because he said he was feeling sober and bored, and then for the next few nights out he asked me to buy him a drink every time I went to the bar. I told him where to get off. I like generosity, I do not like people who take it for granted.
Once I bought one of my male friends a drink when we were out because he said he was feeling sober and bored, and then for the next few nights out he asked me to buy him a drink every time I went to the bar. I told him where to get off. I like generosity, I do not like people who take it for granted.
I hate it when girls do that. I would never be that rude. If they ask you to buy them a drink they are just freeloading.
Example: I bumped into an old school friend over Xmas and she said "Shall I buy you a drink?"...So I thought it was a lovely offer and I said "Sure. Thanks"....Anyway to my astonishment she simply tapped a man on the shoulder and asked him to buy us drinks. It was really awkward for me because I couldn't alter the situation so I just tried to be extra kind to the man and thank him profusely. I felt really guilty even though it wasn't my fault because I don't like the idea of using men to get what I want, or of getting something I don't deserve
I hope that there aren't too many girls like this. I'd be shocked if there were.
Example: I bumped into an old school friend over Xmas and she said "Shall I buy you a drink?"...So I thought it was a lovely offer and I said "Sure. Thanks"....Anyway to my astonishment she simply tapped a man on the shoulder and asked him to buy us drinks. It was really awkward for me because I couldn't alter the situation so I just tried to be extra kind to the man and thank him profusely. I felt really guilty even though it wasn't my fault because I don't like the idea of using men to get what I want, or of getting something I don't deserve
I hope that there aren't too many girls like this. I'd be shocked if there were.
Original post by youshallnotpass
OK so your out one night and a girl asks you to buy her a drink you have just met her . How do you know if she likes you or just trying to get a free drink from you?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
This is a turn off to me..
I dont care how sexy she is.. it actually happened to once..
Sexy blonde girl : what about you buy me a drink?
Me: "Did you come to the club to beg?"...then I walked off.
This is a big turn off in my opinion.
Ah, this happened to me once.
Her: "Hey, want to buy me a drink?"
Me: "No, not really."
Things are much more straight forward than TSR makes them out to be.
Her: "Hey, want to buy me a drink?"
Me: "No, not really."
Things are much more straight forward than TSR makes them out to be.
Original post by youshallnotpass
OK so your out one night and a girl asks you to buy her a drink you have just met her . How do you know if she likes you or just trying to get a free drink from you?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
Girls in your experience how often do you ask guys to buy you drink?
Say this and I guarantee you a 50/50 response.
"Sure, buy me one then!" *smile*
Dont be cocky as you say this, just look straight, smile nicely and its either a no, which proves that she is a drink tout (aka a whore) or a girl that you can have a laugh with and talk too.
Why is this a good idea?
You are now at the bar, with both of your heads together (and bodies). TALK TO HER BOY!
Do not let her twist it into a situation where she chooses an expensive drink and she gets you a crap one. Go even on this, dont bitch out and if she does try that just walk off with the good drink and forget her.
No. If a girl I don't even know is rude enough to ask me to buy them a drink then they are not worth the time. I just ask them if they are incapable of going to the bar and getting a drink themselves.
It is a rule among my mates that no one buys a random girl a drink.
Original post by Ben_LiveYourDreams
It is a rule among my mates that no one buys a random girl a drink.
Good rule.
I never ask, and frankly I prefer to buy my own drinks anyway, as if I accept a drink from a guy, they tend to get the wrong end of the stick
If a girl asked me to buy her a drink, I'd think it's really rude. If she offered to buy me one, I'd probably say she could buy the next one and buy the first one
I would never ask someone to buy me a drink.
However if someone insists on buying me a drink I'll do a little courteous protesting and then accept. Despite the fact that I'm in a relationship - I just see it as a free drink tbh and I'm not going to complain especially as I try to budget on nights out now
Edit: now reading back though this I feel like an awful person. Why do TSR's have to be so damn morally correct?
However if someone insists on buying me a drink I'll do a little courteous protesting and then accept. Despite the fact that I'm in a relationship - I just see it as a free drink tbh and I'm not going to complain especially as I try to budget on nights out now
Edit: now reading back though this I feel like an awful person. Why do TSR's have to be so damn morally correct?
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