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Where are all the decent sikh girls???

Where are you girls! All I seem to find are the girls that get drunk, club everyday and act like sluts :/.. Are there any sikh girls out there that don't drink etc like we are meant to haha?

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Original post by ZRO
Where are you girls! All I seem to find are the girls that get drunk, club everyday and act like sluts :/.. Are there any sikh girls out there that don't drink etc like we are meant to haha?

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Did you honestly think that you wold get an answer posting on the internet? If you can't find girls in real life don't expect someone to help online. I mean you could check aisle four in most Morrisons:rolleyes:

I am not religous myself but from a Sikh family and people who label girls that drink "sluts" aren't worth being around tbh. I mean plenty of Sikh guys drink and thats fine. Plenty of them chase girls-Sikh or white. But if a girl drinks thats wrong. And while they chase said girls, if they see a girl responding to SOMEONE ELSE'S interest she becomes a "slut". If its your interest no. But anyone elses she is a "slut" according to you:rolleyes:
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Lol I've found a few but there aren't very many!

And I'm not calling them sluts because they drink...... Im calling them sluts because I see them sleeping around with different people while not being g in a relationship which I deem to be slutty.

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Also I'm not proper religious aswell
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If the word slut is an acceptable part of your vocabulary it's very unlikely you will find any girls, never mind decent ones.
What if i told you, you can date girls from all religious and cultural backgrounds. I say this because limiting yourself to just Sikh girls is not really doing you any favours as you've just pointed out.
Original post by ConnorB
What if i told you, you can date girls from all religious and cultural backgrounds. I say this because limiting yourself to just Sikh girls is not really doing you any favours as you've just pointed out.


In all fairness it is his choice if he wants to only date girls of his race. I mean they will have a similar culture, etc. My problem is that I just think that asking on the internet "where are they?" is a little stupid. I mean you will find girls you like in the real world, just keep looking. There must be some Sikh girls thinking "where are guys who don't have casual sex?" so just meet them in life. Thats all you can do.
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Original post by ZRO
Where are you girls! All I seem to find are the girls that get drunk, club everyday and act like sluts :/.. Are there any sikh girls out there that don't drink etc like we are meant to haha?

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You're a pleasant chap aren't you?! :rolleyes:
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Lol i dont mean to sound like an ******* when I say "slut" But isn't that what there called these days? And yeah I know it's pretty stupid posting this, but I just can't find one, although I will keep looking! And to the person that said look for other religions, it won't work, I was with my GF for 2 years and she was gujurati but we decided to end it as our families wouldn't accept it. Therefore I'm looking for a sikh girl. Otherwise I'd still be with my GF and maybe we would have got married :frown:....

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Original post by ZRO
Lol i dont mean to sound like an ******* when I say "slut" But isn't that what there called these days? And yeah I know it's pretty stupid posting this, but I just can't find one, although I will keep looking! And to the person that said look for other religions, it won't work, I was with my GF for 2 years and she was gujurati but we decided to end it as our families wouldn't accept it. Therefore I'm looking for a sikh girl. Otherwise I'd still be with my GF and maybe we would have got married :frown:....

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try a dating website mate and not an internet forum !!!
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Original post by ZRO
Lol i dont mean to sound like an ******* when I say "slut" But isn't that what there called these days? And yeah I know it's pretty stupid posting this, but I just can't find one, although I will keep looking! And to the person that said look for other religions, it won't work, I was with my GF for 2 years and she was gujurati but we decided to end it as our families wouldn't accept it. Therefore I'm looking for a sikh girl. Otherwise I'd still be with my GF and maybe we would have got married :frown:....

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better yet ...try back home!
Loooooool
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Punjabimatrimony.com, innit.

I'm a girl from a Sikh background - although I'm not religious at all. I know many sikh girls that fit into your criteria so I think it's just a matter of you bumping into one but you make it sound like an active search. Noone when talking about their partner starts off with 'oh I totally expected to meet the one today'. I think, just stop looking. If you're wondering whether they exist, yes they do.

I get the feeling you posted this so all of the sikh girls would flock in here thus somewhat narrowing your search lol :p:
Original post by ZRO
Lol i dont mean to sound like an ******* when I say "slut" But isn't that what there called these days? And yeah I know it's pretty stupid posting this, but I just can't find one, although I will keep looking! And to the person that said look for other religions, it won't work, I was with my GF for 2 years and she was gujurati but we decided to end it as our families wouldn't accept it. Therefore I'm looking for a sikh girl. Otherwise I'd still be with my GF and maybe we would have got married :frown:....

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maybe its not about finding a "nice sikh girl" but rather standing up to your parents.
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Original post by kimprovising
maybe its not about finding a "nice sikh girl" but rather standing up to your parents.


Lol in a sikh family, if they don't agree, I'd most likely be dishoned..... But anyway my question is just like, not I want sikh girls to post here, but if they don't hang out at clubs, then where do some of them hang out etc?

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Original post by ZRO
Lol in a sikh family, if they don't agree, I'd most likely be dishoned..... But anyway my question is just like, not I want sikh girls to post here, but if they don't hang out at clubs, then where do some of them hang out etc?

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in your sikh family ! its not like that in every sikh family !...
Original post by ZRO
Lol in a sikh family, if they don't agree, I'd most likely be dishoned..... But anyway my question is just like, not I want sikh girls to post here, but if they don't hang out at clubs, then where do some of them hang out etc?

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Wherever people tend to be... I mean its not like "bad Sikh girls in clubs, ok Sikh girls in classy bars, the "good" Sikh girls are in this place"...

They are all around you in many places in the real world. How do you meet other people? Lectures, uni, socialisng, friends of friends, work etc. Just live your life and find them:confused:

Sikh girls you described are not like wildebeest who gather around certain water holes. There is no specific place to find them...
Original post by ZRO
Lol in a sikh family, if they don't agree, I'd most likely be dishoned..... But anyway my question is just like, not I want sikh girls to post here, but if they don't hang out at clubs, then where do some of them hang out etc?

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Well there isn't a single, particular place where all the "nice sikh girls" hang out. :rolleyes:

You said it yourself you're not very religious, so what exactly is wrong with a girl who drinks and clubs? Who are you to say these girls are indecent?

Maybe you should stop labelling people, you'd probably have better luck finding someone.
Original post by ZRO
Lol i dont mean to sound like an ******* when I say "slut" But isn't that what there called these days? And yeah I know it's pretty stupid posting this, but I just can't find one, although I will keep looking! And to the person that said look for other religions, it won't work, I was with my GF for 2 years and she was gujurati but we decided to end it as our families wouldn't accept it. Therefore I'm looking for a sikh girl. Otherwise I'd still be with my GF and maybe we would have got married :frown:....

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so a sikh girl is your second preference? Im surprised you didnt have the foresight to acknowledge that you + gujarati while wanting to remain "sikh" would end in tears.
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Original post by okapobcfc08
so a sikh girl is your second preference? Im surprised you didnt have the foresight to acknowledge that you + gujarati while wanting to remain "sikh" would end in tears.


No its not a second preference, if you fall in love with someone it's hard to let go. We both knew it would end sooner or later, but we couldn't/didn't want to end it, till some problems arose

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