Hi,
I want to ask you sth. I have seen many, many people (some of them are my friends) getting heartbroken because their partners, whom they truly loved and treasured, have cheated on them. Since then, it took them years to recover and start dating once again. But this time they get multiply partners that they pretend they love and just get fun. They promised to never love again and only play. But among their new partners I have seen and meet lovely, pure-hearted people who have no wrong intentions but sadly there is no happy ending for them. It hurts me to see that and I tried many times to talk with my friends about stopping this stupid revenge game, especially on innocent people. My question is why a person once harmed believes that everybody is like that? I mean, obviously there are horrible people (cheaters are absolute s*%*#) but also good as well. And if these good people get hurt, they may change and act the same way - it's like a sick cycle. Idk, I admit I have never loved somebody as in "this one true love" and I guess I don't know about such intense emotions but this dating game for revenge is horrible! It needs to stop! Why people can't continue with their life, be more careful when choosing new partners? I can imagine how terrible is it when somebody cheats on you and again, I may have never experience this and I may not understand people in love... But it doesn't seem ok, right?