How can i become attractive to women/girls

I am 17 and want to become attractive to women. What can i do to be attractive to them. I know the obvious ones such ad dress nice, smell good and have confidence in yourself ( which i lack)... what else can i do to improve my appearance and be more attractive to women.

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Reply 1

antipathy

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If you're talking specifically appearance, then make sure you keep physically active and eat well. Girls don't expect you to be bulging with muscles, but it'll do wonders if you keep yourself slim.

Honestly though, you probably just need to socialise more. Join some local clubs/activity groups, the more people you bump into on a casual basis, the more likely you are to hit it off with someone.

Reply 2

Valyrian

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Buy a unicorn. Chicks dig unicorns.

Reply 3

toonervoustotalk

OP

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Original post by lilypear

Buy a unicorn. Chicks dig unicorns.

Its fine. I already have a unicorn down there.

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Reply 4

awe

14

Don't look like all you're doing in life is waiting for a girlfriend. Be your own person - be busy, have a 'something' about you that's a little different whether it's being a film buff or whatever; just have interests, have things to say that are your own. Don't talk to women as if they're mythical mermaids on a pedestal, because they're no different from you and shouldn't be treated differently from how you'd be with any other decent human being. Chat with them amiably, calmly. Don't worry about what you're going to say next whilst they're talking, just listen and say what you want. Most importantly, just be someone that you like before you expect other people to like you as well.

Reply 5

PrincePauper

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Original post by toonervoustotalk

Its fine. I already have a unicorn down there.

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aka nothing really exists down there?

Reply 6

christopher23

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Original post by PrincePauper

aka nothing really exists down there?

had me creasinggggg :rofl2:

Reply 7

P357

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Original post by toonervoustotalk

I am 17 and want to become attractive to women. What can i do to be attractive to them. I know the obvious ones such ad dress nice, smell good and have confidence in yourself ( which i lack)... what else can i do to improve my appearance and be more attractive to women.

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mistake number 1------>"thinking that girls are attracted to looks foremost"...you're starting on the wrong foot already m'darling.

Reply 8

Inazuma

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Original post by P357

mistake number 1------>"thinking that girls are attracted to looks foremost"...you're starting on the wrong foot already m'darling.

Well tinder would suggest that looks are foremost lol.

But when they aren't, definitely being confident and interesting

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Reply 9

elpistolero7

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Disregard women. Acquire aesthetics and currency .

Reply 10

Sunny_Smiles

1) looks
2) confidence
3) funny
4) interesting to talk to
5) hygienic/nicely smelling
you're probably not satisfying at least one of these things

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 11

P357

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erm yeah...to all the people here going on about being a good conversationalist and looking all pretty-quit misleading the poor guy...
OP,nevermind the replies on this thread-the majority shall be dishonest. Those qualities above are good things to have no doubt,but they will land you in the friend-zone if you haven't got something about you that will make the girl in question associate with power-that could be anything: physical strength,currency,exceeding in a certain field...blah blah,or having people think you're popular maybe?she'll associate that with status,confidence etc etc...

Reply 12

Anonymous #1

Original post by P357

mistake number 1------>"thinking that girls are attracted to looks foremost"...you're starting on the wrong foot already m'darling.

Yes, girls actually are attracted to looks first and foremost.

Reply 13

LightBlueSoldier

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Original post by P357

mistake number 1------>"thinking that girls are attracted to looks foremost"...you're starting on the wrong foot already m'darling.

Except that that's the truth in the vast majority of cases?

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Reply 14

P357

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Original post by Anonymous

Yes, girls actually are attracted to looks first and foremost.

Original post by LightBlueSoldier

Except that that's the truth in the vast majority of cases?

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I'm sorry guys-a man/guy can be however great-looking you want,but if he's weak/lacks any status or potential no girl/woman will be into him. Women are attracted to power/status/"whatever else is in that category" first and foremost.

EDIT:don't get me wrong,looks are AWESOME and pretty much a close second...

(edited 10 years ago)

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

Original post by Sunny_Smiles

1) looks

you're probably not satisfying at least one of these things

fixed for you.

Reply 16

Sunny_Smiles

Original post by Anonymous

fixed for you.

or just "money" :lol:

especially as women get older
but at least in my own male opinion, looks are a foot in the door to say the least, but if your only reason for seeing someone is their looks then things will become very boring fast

Reply 17

quads1992

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Original post by P357

I'm sorry guys-a man/guy can be however great-looking you want,but if he's weak/lacks any status or potential no girl/woman will be into him. Women are attracted to power/status/"whatever else is in that category" first and foremost.

EDIT:don't get me wrong,looks are AWESOME and pretty much a close second...

Women simply assume that a good looking man is powerful and has high status.

Reply 18

P357

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Original post by quads1992

Women simply assume that a good looking man is powerful and has high status.

eeeer,not necessarily...I don't always,personally.
Although if the guy works-out and it shows I suppose I do tend to be inclined to assume he's physically tough.