Going to be used what am I doing wrong?

Good judgement - avoid the sharks. From what you say you have no problem. Go on dates and progress one step at a time..

Having encountered someone like this, I did decide that it was clear he was after one thing and decided I couldn't be with someone like him.

Wow a girl that actually sussed a player. I don't see that happening.

Just go on dates and keep it non sexual for a while

Not a very good player he said he wouldn't go out with me but i could go and see im at his house anytime....

Well, I'd respect you more if you learned to punctuate.

I would respect you more if you had anything worth saying! Its only a forum.

I am a pretty ,nice ,successful girl and I just don't understand why i can't find someone I like who will respect me.

Do you still like him though and was it the best decision at in the long run?

Hi TSR,

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I met a guy in a club who i like I rarely like many people so it was new for me anyway I was interested in dating him however he only has interest in one thing taking my Virginity I honestly thought he liked me luckily I didn't have sex with as I wanted to keep my dignity. I still like him and if it was different i would of had sex with I just don't like the idea of getting with someone who will just use me.

I am a pretty ,nice ,successful girl and I just don't understand why i can't find someone I like who will respect me.


Any suggestions on what to do.

Wow a girl that actually sussed a player. I don't see that happening.

Just go on dates and keep it non sexual for a while

Hi TSR,

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I am a pretty ,nice ,successful girl and I just don't understand why i can't find someone I like who will respect me.


Any suggestions on what to do.

Exactly my point this guy was just a bit to obvious maybe a bit to honest with her, she will meet much more stealth like manipulative guys who will leave without a care after sex its a hollow victory in some sense.

Yet girls ask guys to be honest and look where it left this fella, not that I feel sorry for him but maybe this will show girls why some guys are not really interested in being honest.

Hi TSR,

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I met a guy in a club who i like I rarely like many people so it was new for me anyway I was interested in dating him however he only has interest in one thing taking my Virginity I honestly thought he liked me luckily I didn't have sex with as I wanted to keep my dignity. I still like him and if it was different i would of had sex with I just don't like the idea of getting with someone who will just use me.

I am a pretty ,nice ,successful girl and I just don't understand why i can't find someone I like who will respect me.


Any suggestions on what to do.

This is such an incredible tale to tell NOT

Unless you are somehow religious and are keeping your virginity for your future husband this tale will at some point will have no worth, just like the fact you at some point will not be a virgin.

I am going to guess you ain't going to keep your virginity for your husband like the majority of western women. You will probably have a long line of sex partners, so please tell me why you would complain about a guy wanting to take your virginity? Since hey you will probably lose it at some point to some guy you may never see again anyway.

This idea of being used by girls is somewhat confusing, complaining about losing something that they will probably lose to some other much more manipulative guy at some point, at least this fella was honest with you.

You state you honestly thinks he likes you and yes you were right he likes you and wants to f**k you. Maybe he does not want a long term relationship with you this does not necessarily mean you would be somehow used just cause you are looking for some fairy tale first date.

We all know its highly possible your first relationship won't last that long, it will be nice that it will be memorable for you and the guy treats you nice but lets face the truth, it will not last long.

Virginity lost now on to the next guy.