I never go straight to sex - I always make sure she has at least one orgasm with oral first. Maybe these guys just didn't have a clue what they were doing?

Reply 29

517340

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Original post by President Putin

Haha.

Come on RD, don't be a party spoiler. :tongue:

Nothing is, since you don't want it to be... :tongue:

Plus, do you really think I don't support polgamy? Please... I was cheating on my wife with a pretty gymnast long before she had a clue!

Cheating =/= polygamy. Surprised you openly admit to doing it yet denying every allegation to all news media. Plus, have you forgotten that you've still got polygamy as illegal?

Reply 30

President Putin

Original post by Ruthless Dutchman

Cheating =/= polygamy. Surprised you openly admit to doing it yet denying every allegation to all news media. Plus, have you forgotten that you've still got polygamy as illegal?

You implied that cheating = polygamy in your previous post:

Original post by Ruthless Dutchman

I don't think any of us are up for a polygamous relationship, regardless of the technicalities.

And don't question me any further on my country's law. You never saw my statement before, understood? Or you'll end up like Politkovskaya or Litvinienko.

(edited 9 years ago)

Reply 31

lisam191

OP

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Original post by President Putin

You implied that cheating =/= polygamy in your previous post:

And don't question me any further on my country's law. You never saw my statement before, understood? Or you'll end up like Politkovskaya or Litvinienko.

this is all getting very serious :rolleyes:

Reply 32

Anonymous #1

Original post by lisam191

Am i the only female out there that thinks sex really does not feel as good as you expect it to?
I lost my virginity when i was 18, i am 23 now. I've only had sex with 4 different guys, but 2 of these were long term boyfriends so it's not a case that i've only had it 4 or 5 times...i've had it alot and it just is not getting any better.
I mean, all it feels like to me is something going in and out of me? i can feel it but it isn't pleasurable?
Also i have never ever orgasmed having sex. Infact no guy has ever made me have an orgasm.
Every time ive had sex the guy seems to love it, but for me its just so 'meh'. Really doesn't feel good to me...i genuinely feel there is something wrong with me :frown:

1) They are doing it wrong. Younger guys I've found tend to be far more inexperienced and selfish. Older guys tend to be better, but depends. Some are equally crap. And I mean older (30s+ at very least). It is very frustrating, but once you find that phenomenal match then like phwoah. You can't go back.

2) The more they make a big issue out of a girl taking a while - the longer it will take. Again, the more experienced know this. A guy can only get you so close if you aren't in the right frame of mind.

3) Intercourse itself isn't a big stimulant. I myself while I enjoy it, it won't get me anywhere. If it's combined with other stimulation, faaar better. It's all about 'proper' foreplay - ideally you get to 'get off' first, then you help him out a wee bit or so and both you guys get to it.

Can't give any advice how to find them guys (Struggles of us gals eh), but now I have found them, they aren't going anywhere :colone:

I suggest you do likewise, and don't bother with those who don't respect you enough to satisfy you :smile:

Reply 33

Mankytoes

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Original post by lisam191

it's usually just a case of a few minutes of finger/tongue action, then it's straight to the full on sex. I'm single at the minute, but my ex boyfriend HATED oral sex so i never really got it off him. I can make myself orgasm but that is it, it also takes ages. with guys the sex is always over before i feel any pleasure at all :puppyeyes:

Well that's no good. Taking half an hour to an hour to get yourself shows you aren't naturally quick, but these guys don't sound like they know how to pleasure a woman. Find a guy who likes licking pussy, honestly it's not rare, I'll happily do it every time for a decent amount of time. And not because I'm selfless, I honestly love doing it. If you ask a group of guys, most like it.

Original post by President Putin

Although it does show their inexperience. You use your fingers, tongue and the fred in combination if you want a girl to get wet.

A girl should be wet before you touch her vagina with any part, with kissing and touching other sexy bits.

Reply 34

trustmeimlying1

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Original post by LavenderBlueSky88

Yeah sex is actually really overrated for women. It's like some sort of conspiracy no one talks about, and the media/porn tells you it's amazing and everyone is having all these orgasms but it's just bull. Aside from the "G spot" (if it exists) there is nothing anatomically placed within a vagina to make it feel particularly pleasurable. Studies have shown that even in some women claiming to have vaginal orgasms, they were actually originating from the clitoris.

The answer... Practice making yourself orgasm. You say it takes half an hour, but you may discover ways that speed it up. Also make sure the guy does plenty of foreplay first... Then you can achieve orgasm during sex either by doing it yourself, having him do it or using a vibrator.

interesting theory there...wouldnt be surprised...

Im glad Im not after the sex then..but all the other stuff that goes with an intimate relationship

Original post by lisam191

Am i the only female out there that thinks sex really does not feel as good as you expect it to?
I lost my virginity when i was 18, i am 23 now. I've only had sex with 4 different guys, but 2 of these were long term boyfriends so it's not a case that i've only had it 4 or 5 times...i've had it alot and it just is not getting any better.
I mean, all it feels like to me is something going in and out of me? i can feel it but it isn't pleasurable?
Also i have never ever orgasmed having sex. Infact no guy has ever made me have an orgasm.
Every time ive had sex the guy seems to love it, but for me its just so 'meh'. Really doesn't feel good to me...i genuinely feel there is something wrong with me :frown:

up above is good but also tell them how you masterbate...and make him wait until you orgasm in a teasing encouraging way ofcourse

honesty is the best policy bro :smile:

Reply 35

cole-slaw

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Original post by lisam191

i think so

but you're not certain....

Reply 36

455409

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I couldn't be bothered to finger you for an hour, I don't blame them for not making you orgasm.

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Reply 37

Rum Ham

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I am not fond of intercourse either. Tbh I don't know many girls who enjoy it or can get there from it. That is why foreplay is so important and being able to pleasure yourself too.

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Reply 38

MrMango

Original post by lisam191

Am i the only female out there that thinks sex really does not feel as good as you expect it to?
I lost my virginity when i was 18, i am 23 now. I've only had sex with 4 different guys, but 2 of these were long term boyfriends so it's not a case that i've only had it 4 or 5 times...i've had it alot and it just is not getting any better.
I mean, all it feels like to me is something going in and out of me? i can feel it but it isn't pleasurable?
Also i have never ever orgasmed having sex. Infact no guy has ever made me have an orgasm.
Every time ive had sex the guy seems to love it, but for me its just so 'meh'. Really doesn't feel good to me...i genuinely feel there is something wrong with me :frown:

Just haven't met me.

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Reply 39

MrMango

Original post by President Putin

That's why these guys may have had issues making you scream, girl.

Although it does show their inexperience. You use your fingers, tongue and the fred in combination if you want a girl to get wet.

Honestly I think people like you should be in prison.

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sex doesn't feel good?

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