Would you datesomeone who does drugs?

Reply 20

Afghan Warrior

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Original post by therapiststeve

Even if the guy is like a cocaine drug lord and he can buy you anything in the world you want?

i don't like it when people buy me things

Reply 21

username931319

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Habitual user? No.

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Reply 22

moment of truth

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Original post by Anonymous

Party drugs I think ?

Ah okay. As long as you think he wouldn't influence you to take any and he is fine after a night out or whatever there shouldn't be a problem, but its up to you. :smile:

Reply 23

Rum Ham

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I would only date someone who does weed or booze at most but not in extreme amounts and as long as they could take it or leave it

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Threads like this always get the same responses on here and it confuses me, because most people who say ''no'' won't bat an eyelid about someone getting drunk on a regular basis. If someone is an addict or they try to pressure you into taking something then fair enough, that sort of person is probably best avoided, but you can't stereotype all drug users that easily.

I've taken stuff on nights out and I don't see it as being any worse than getting drunk.

Reply 25

Unconventional.

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It depends, it's not a black and white issue to me. I probably wouldn't, just because I'm not a fan of drugs myself and I would probably find it a bit awkward and uncomfortable if we were going on nights out together and he was taking stuff and I wasn't but it depends on what he is taking, how frequently, etc. If it was just occasionally and nothing proper serious like crack or something lol then it would probably be ok with me.

Reply 26

ArtGoblin

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It would be my preference.

No I wouldn't.

No. If he can't take care of himself, he can't take care of me. Plus I've never seen people in that kind of situation who made their relationship work. It always turns out that the guy spends more money on drugs than buying Valentine's day presents or paying for a train ticket to go see his lady, etc.

Reply 29

username931319

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Original post by catsis

No. If he can't take care of himself, he can't take care of me. Plus I've never seen people in that kind of situation who made their relationship work. It always turns out that the guy spends more money on drugs than buying Valentine's day presents or paying for a train ticket to go see his lady, etc.

What kind of free-loader expects Valentine gifts.

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Reply 30

xoxAngel_Kxox

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No I wouldn't. Because there is always the chance that a habit can become a problem.

Reply 31

Zargabaath

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Original post by ArtGoblin

It would be my preference.

THIS, I'd much rather someone who I could do it with. It would be much less awkward

I wouldn't really care if they didn't though, as long as they don't try to push their beliefs onto me.

Reply 32

miser

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If I thought they had a drug problem then no, but if they liked to do MDMA or cannabis or something occasionally I wouldn't mind. Basically, I'd want to date someone who was open-minded to what drugs can offer, without being 'a druggie'.